Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)


Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for your prompt reply. Really appreciate it.

Bride - Dog
Groom - Pig
Bride's mother - Monkey
Bride's father - Rabbit
Groom's mother - Pig
Groom's father - Rabbit

Thank you very much. Have a great evening!

Regards,
Wenwen :P
 
Hi Master Tong,

I would like know if holding a wedding dinner on 27 Nov 10 is an auspicious date.

Bride - Dog
Groom - Dog
Bride's mother - Dog
Bride's father - Rabbit
Groom's mother - Rooster
Groom's father - Monkey

Thank you!
 
Hi Master Tong,
I understand and yes it will be unfair to your clients. We are planing for the wedding to be either on the 23rd or the 24th of April 2011. Are they good or bad dates? Thanks in advance

Ken
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for replaying to my last post. I was not aware that the Tong Shu for 2011 was not out yet. Are any of the following bad for Bazi wedding dates:

Saturday July 2, 2011
Saturday July 16, 2011
Saturday July 30, 2011
Saturday August 6 2011
Saturday August 20, 2011


Just a reminder of the relevant birthday information:

Bride: June 24, 1985; ox
Bride's mum: Rat
Bride's dad: Snake

Groom: March 23, 1983; pig
Groom's mum: Snake
Groom's dad: Tiger


Thank you so much!
 
Hi Master Tong,

I was actually looking at the year 2011 to hold my wedding. However after read through previous comment from you, that rooster will not be a good year in 2011. I hope to seek your advise if lunar calendar on Feb in 2012 is suitable? looking at 25/02/2012 or 10/3/2012

Bride - Ox
Bride's mother - Horse
Bride's father - Horse

Groom - Rooster
Groom's mother - Snake
Groom's father - Rat

Thank you!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to find out if 03/09/11 is a gd date for us. Thanks.

Bride - Rat
Groom - Rooster
Bride's mother - Rat
Bride's father - Tiger
Groom's mother - Rat
Groom's father - Dog
 
Hi Master Tong,

I am a bride to be who is looking at tying the knot at the end of the year.. Looking at possible dates from Oct to Dec 2010.

My details are as such

Bride: Ox
Bride's Father: Monkey
Bride's Mum: Rooster

Groom: Dog
Groom's Father: Lamb
Groom's Mum: Tiger

Like to find out what dates are good.. looking preferably at weekends, Sat/ Suns... Thank you.. do u need anymore information?
 
hi master tong,

can you advise whether these dates are good for traditional marriage in 2011?

Sep 24, 2011
Oct 1, 2011
Oct 15, 2011
Oct 22, 2011

bridegroom and bride: dog
bride's mother: tiger
bride's father: boar
bridegroom's mother: rabbit
bridegroom's father: ox

thank you
 
Hi Master Tong

Need ur advise here as I'm facing some serious problems.
My husband elder sister is having her Traditional Marriage on 13 Nov 2010.
Me & my husband had ROM since Sep 2008 & were planning for a date to hold our Traditional Marriage since then.
My elder brother is also hinting that he need to tie the knot in ard June 2011 as his flat will be ready then.

Can u pls advise me how to avoid the before after 3 months custom? Will it make a different if her sister is holding the Traditional Marriage the 2nd time as she had divorced before?

I was told by my mum that Lunar Jan, Feb & March is not suitable for marriage. So I'm really vexed now.

Groom: Rooster (Jan 1982)
Bride: Pig
 
Hi Master Tong,
My AD is 4 Dec 2010. Is this a fine day? Are there any auspicious times we need to follow during the day?

bridegroom: ox
bride: rabbit
bride's mother: monkey
bride's father: dragon
bridegroom's mother: rat
bridegroom's father: dragon

Thank you.

Linda
 
Hi Master Tong,

Me and my boyfriend is planning to get marry on 01 oct 2011 or 20 Nov 2011. Is these a gd day?? Which is better?

bridegroom: Rooster
bride: Dog

Thank you!!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to find out if 02/May/2010 is a gd date for us. Thanks.

Bride - Pig
Groom - Sheep
Bride's mother - Dog
Bride's father - Monkey
Groom's mother - Rabbit
Groom's father - Rooster
 
Hi Master Tong

Sorry will like to add more info on earlier post.
Groom: Rooster (Jan 1982)
Bride: Pig
Groom Father : Pig
Groom Mother : Monkey
Bride Father : Rabbit
Bride Mother : Horse
 
Hi Bubblygirl,

15/5 is ok but 6/6 is not a general good day for ROM.

For AD weekdays dates, you can use:

- 4/11, 12/11, 24/11, 26/11, 06/12, 08/12, 20/12

Hopes this helps
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Hi Serene,

22nd Oct is not an ideal date for wedding. I know tong shu says good, but there are other "factors' inside the tong shu (which many does not know..) that makes the day not ideal for wedding. I will not recommend this day.

Other possible general dates are:

10/09, 16/09, 28/09, 11/10, 23/10, 04/11, 12/11, 24/11, 26/11

Hope this helps
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Hi zhuzhu2,

That date clashes to Dog, which is none of you. However, the tong shu for 2011 is not out yet, hence i can't advise you if it is a general good day for both of you till it is out.

Right now, the only way and also the right and accurate way of doing it will be using Bazi to select dates. FYI, a date reflected auspicious in the Tong Shu may still be bad for both of you if the date chosen is not compatible wtih both your Bazi.

As for Bazi wedding dates selection, it is part of my consultation service to my clients, hence i can't provide it here free in the forum or it will be unfair to my clients who paid for my service. Hope you understand.

If you have any other particular date in mind, just post it here. I can advise you if it is a bad day as there are some days that are definitely bad and cannot be used for marriage; and some days that will clash to either of you or your parents, so cannot be used as well.

Siblings or grandparents are NOT taken into consideration. Only parnets and both of you.

Hope this helps
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Hi anne,

You still can be at home, not to worry at all.

All you need to do is that during the fetch the bride session, you will need to "hide" in the bedroom or kitchen first. You cannot see the groom before he steps into the house (ie you cannot "tekan" him). After he steps in, you can come out from your hiding place and proceed as normal. So you still can be there. Reason why we do this is coz our chinese supersition says that if the groom and the conflicting animal signs sees each other before he steps into the house, the relaionship between each other won't be good next time. that is why you 'hide' till he steps in
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So not to worry and if you still want to "tekan" him, you can do 2nd round of "games" before he enter bride's room (after he is inside the house...
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Hi Kristin,

2011 is a rabbit year and since the groom is born in Rooster yr, Rooster and Rabbit clashes...hence 2011 is not a good yr for marriage for him. U may want consider 2010 or 2012..
 
Hi Wenwen,

Only 28/5 does not clash to anyone. Whether if it will be a general good dates will have to wait for the 2011 tong shu to be out in 7th lunar month period.

Hope this helps
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Hi sally_ing,

No worries
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The tong shu is out every year around 7th lunar month period.

Saturday July 2, 2011 (clash to Rat, cannot use)
Saturday July 16, 2011 (Clash to Tiger, cannot use)
Saturday July 30, 2011 (Does not clash to anyone)
Saturday August 6 2011 (7th lunar month)
Saturday August 20, 2011 (7th lunar month)

Hnece only 30/7 does not clash. For general dates, we have to wait till tong shu is out then we can choose. The only way to do it now is using Bazi to select.

Hope this helps
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Hi WongKL,

Yes you can do it after 4th Feb 2012.

But at this moment, i can't check for you 2012 dates as i haven't start to select for 2012 dates yet( will start in few weeks time as there are beginning to have request for it), and i will need to "plot" out the good and bad dates first for wedding purpose. We usually do it around CNY period coz anyway no hotels will take your booking yet.

You can check back with me next month.
 
Hi grace.tan85,

Here are some general dates you can use for 2010:

- 23/10, 26/12

Only 2 weekend dates available as other dates will clash with your or your parents.

Hope this helps
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Hi WinnieYip,

Sep 24, 2011 (Bad month for marriage, avoid this date)
Oct 1, 2011 (Bad month for marriage, avoid this date)
Oct 15, 2011 (Does not clash to anyone)
Oct 22, 2011 (Does not clash to anyone)

Hence only 15/10 and 22/10 don't clash. Whether if it is a general good date or not, the tong shu won't be out till 7th lunar month. The only way and right way to calculate it now will be using Bazi.

Hope this helps
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Hi Cartier,

This is the most tricky situation you can get. I do have clients that have these problems, but the only way to resolve this is that someone in the family must give in to each other. Your must space it equally such that it is more than 3 months apart.

In any case, the groom is born Rooster yr, hence 2011 is not a good yr for marriage as Rabbit year clashes with Rooster. U will need to do it in 2010 this yr or 2012 if possible. Hence this might "solve" a little of your problem
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Hi Lin,

4th Dec 2010 is not a general tong shu good day for wedding. However, if your date is selected by another master using Bazi, it can override the general tong shu bad day (unless you choose it yourself then may not be so good thing...)

For fetch the bride timing, it will be 0700hrs - 0859hrs.
 
Hi Master Tong,
What other auspicious dates are available for us this year? I prefer a Saturday between Oct to Dec 2010. Thank you so much.

bridegroom: ox
bride: rabbit
bride's mother: monkey
bride's father: dragon
bridegroom's mother: rat
bridegroom's father: dragon


Linda
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thk you for your kind advice!
My sister-in-law is horse, will the impact be very big?
Coz I understand that more important is the wedding couple and the parents..
 
quote: "Hi Kristin,

2011 is a rabbit year and since the groom is born in Rooster yr, Rooster and Rabbit clashes...hence 2011 is not a good yr for marriage for him. U may want consider 2010 or 2012.."

tt means after 2012 cny? i know that 2012 cny is 23 jan...

which month is good month to get married in 2012?

Thanks!

kristin
 
Hi Linda,

Here are the general tong shu dates for Sat Oct - Dec 2010:

- 13/11

Only this Sat does not clash to any of you. The rest of the Sat that are good will clash to you or your parents, hence cannot use
 
HI milktea20,

Only parents and couple is taken into consideration. For the rest like your sis, they just need to "hide" and avoid seeing the groom during the gate crashing session. After the groom steps into the house, then she can come out.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi Kristin,

The transition date between 2 animal signs is not CNY. That is a huge misconception.

It is the Li Chun, which is 4th/5th Feb every year. Hence after this day, it will then be the Dragon yr 2012.

As for which month is best, we can only tell from both your Bazi, not the animal signs..

Hope this helps
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Hi Master Tong,

My HTB and myself have fixed our wedding date on 11 Jun 2010 (Fri). Will you be able to advise on the Auspicious color for that day? Thanks.
 


Hi Master Tong,

Asking for the behalf of my friend. My friend is planning to ROM in the year 2011, sometime in Aug (lunar calendar) can you please advise on some of the dates which are auspicious to them.

Bride - rat
Bride's mother - Snake
Bride's father - Snake

Groom - Monkey
Groom's mother - Sheep

*Groom's father was not living together or not in contact. Do you require siblings living under one roof?

Thanks in advance.
 

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