Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

[Luxxs]

Hi Master Tong,

I have another date which is 3 oct 2015, is this date ok for rom and wedding?
Groom: 9 Jul 1986(tiger)
Bride: 19 Feb 1988 (dragon)

Thanks a lot!!

 

[Skycreator]

Hi Master Tong,

Please kindly advise on whether these few dates are good for weddings?

Dates:
09 Jan 2016
16 Jan 2016

Groom:
1988 (Dragon)
Dad: Rooster
Mum: Tiger

Bride:
1990 (Horse)
Dad: Dog (Passed away)
Mum: Dragon

Thank you, Master Tong

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Foodaholic

U r welecome

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi babyy87

Yes , but the tong shu for 2016 will only be out next yr sept period, so if you are looking at general good dates only, have to wait till tong shu is out before i can advise you. Right now, the only way and accurate method is using bazi to calculate only . That is part of my consultation service for bazi date selections.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi G&B

Yes 2015 is fine for wedding. Let me know which mths you looking at.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Pril Ci

Yes that is a general good date for wedding and clashes only to Rat which is none of you

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi iamjas

Sorry can you repost all your details again?

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi shirley84ger

26th sept 2016 clashes to Snake, so that day is out

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Cheerojess

That is not a general good date for wedding

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi susiesck

i need you to repost all info with both sides parents zodiac signs as well

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi karen86,

I need you to repost with all your parents zodiac signs as well.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi naiyoucreamy

I need to know which mths you looking at and weekends or weekdays. Pls repost all your info again in your reply.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Fabian and Queenie

For rom you dont need to serve tea.

There is no way to work ard the 100 days thingy except to change your ROM date if you want. It is our chinese superstition that it will bring bad luck to you if you go.

26th March is a Year Breaker day, super bad day for wedding . Plus it falls into 10 days b4 Qing ming, the sweep tomb period where no chinese get married that period

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Luxxs

24th Sept is a Month Breaker day, very bad day for wedding

3rd Oct is not a general tong shu date for wedding

 

[cmg_consulting]

HI Skycreator

6th Jan - 3rd feb 2016 is the Month that clashes to the Year（岁破）, hence it is generally considered a bad mth for wedding

 

[Fabian and Queenie]

Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for your advise on the 100 days things. Btw please kindly help us as what are the good dates available for us in the first half of the year.

Thanks.

 

[naiyoucreamy]

Hi Master Tong,

Here you go.

Would you be able to advise of the auspicious dates for maybe Nov & Dec for doing both ROM as well as customary together for 2015? Would like to see the dates for weekday and weekend.

Bride - 31/01/1989
Bride Father - 14/05/1947
Bride Mother - 19/09/1950 (passed away)
Bride Sister - 27/03/1979
Bride Brother - 17/12/1975

Groom - 20/05/1988
Groom Father - 27/08/1956
Groom Mother - 15/05/1957
Groom Brother - 15/06/1993

Thanks in advance!

 

[Fabian and Queenie]

Hi Fabian and Queenie

If you really must get married next yr 2015, the only way out is you must ROM in 2014. At least you are officially married in a good yr first. Banquet is not as critical as ROM.

David Tong

Hi Master Tong,

You mentioned ROM date is more critical than the Banquet. Thus does it matter if the Banquet date is not a general good date.

Pls advise.

Thanks in advance.

 

[karen86]

Hi Master Tong,

Can you advise if there's any good date for ROM before Feb 2015 li chun?

Groom: 18-Nov-1985 (Cow)
Bride: 16-Mar-1986 (Tiger)

Groom Father: Rabbit
Groom Mother: Chicken

Bride Father: Snake
Bride Mother: Pig

Thanks.

 

[Foodaholic]

Hi Foodaholic

U r welecome

Dear Master Tong

May we seek your kind advice on the suitable dates for Jan to June 2016 as well? The restaurants or hotels are quite fully booked. A recap of the family , groom and bride particulars :

Groom: 02 Oct 1986 (Tiger), born 0015 hours
Bride: 28 Feb 1988 (Dragon), born 2312 hours
Groom's Father: 25 Oct 1947 (Pig)
Groom's Mother: 15 July 1951 (Rabbit)
Bride's Father: 21 Nov 1947 (Pig)
Bride's Mother: 24 Nov 1951 (Rabbit)

Many thanks in advance, Master Tong!

 

[GisT]

Hi G&B

Yes 2015 is fine for wedding. Let me know which mths you looking at.

Hi Master Tong,

Great to receive your reply!
Generally we are ok with any month, and I have two good friends weddings to attend in May & June 2015.
Would you be able to advise us on a good date - one for early half of the year (around Mar-May) & the other (around Sep-Dec) for later half of the year?
Thank you.

 

[shirley84ger]

Hi shirley84ger

26th sept 2016 clashes to Snake, so that day is out

Hi,

Master Tong.. Thanks so so much for ur advise..

Here are more details of our parents and us too:

Groom: 05 July 1977(Snack)
Bride: 13 Aug 1984 (Rat)
Groom's Father: 29 March 1950(Tiger)
Groom's Mother: 20 Feb 1951 (Rabbit)
Bride's Father: 02 Aug 1954 (Horse)
Bride's Mother: 21 Aug 1955 (Goat)

If we wanna get married in 2015; what are the good dates?

We are having our ROM on 22nd Nov 14.. in 2015 will be the chinese tea ceremony ect..

 

[MM1986]

Hi master tong ,

I would like to check when will be a good date for guo da li. Is there any weekend date that is available? My wedding is on 20 Dec 2014.

Groom: Dog
Bride: Tiger

Groom Dad: Snake
Groom Mum: Mouse

Bride Mum: Ox

 

[DianaRaymond]

Dear Master Tong,
I would like to seek your advise is 14th March 2015 Saturday (Noon hours) okay a date for wedding banquet day?
We already had our ROM about two years ago liao.

Groom: 26-11-1982 [DOG]
Bride: 04-08-1987 [RABBIT]

Groom's mother: 24-01-1955 [GOAT]

Bride's mother: 09-08-1960 [RAT]
Bride's father: 02-09-1958 [DOG]

kindly advise is there anything inauspicious/clashes about the date, because old people don't like to have "4" in the solar/lunar dates.

Appreciate your advise, thanks in advance!

 

[jolix]

Hi Master Tong,

Would like to check if 18 July 2015 is a good day for wedding? Both ROM and banquet will be on the same day.

Groom: 1986 (tiger)
Bride: 1988 (dragon)

Groom's dad: Pig
Groom's mum: Pig

Bride's dad: monkey
Bride's mum: rooster

thank you!

 

[C&S]

Dear Master,

I would like to check if 10.10.2015 is an auspicious date to hold our wedding dinner.

Groom: 2th May 1979
Bride: 26th May 1988

Thank you very much in advance

 

[Lily90]

Hi Master Tong,

My bf and I are deciding to have our ROM in Feb 28 2015. Please help us take at look Otherwise we hope you can suggest some date
We are planning for our AD to be on Year 2016 is that a good year for us?

Bride - 1990 Horse
Bride Father - 1963 Rabbit
Bride Mother - 1961 Ox
Bride Sister - 1989 Snake
Bride Sister - 1993 Rooster
Bride Brother - 1994 Dog

Groom - 1990 Horse
Groom Father - 1951 Rabbit
Groom Mother - 1952 Dragon
Groom Sister - 1987 Rabbit

Thanks in advance!

 

[tulipkiss]

Hi Master Tong,

Any good weekend dates for chinese customary and banquet in Oct-Dec 2015?

Recap of the birthdates:
Groom: 08 Dec 1986 (Tiger)
Bride: 29 Oct 1987 (Rabbit)
Groom's father: 18 Aug 1948 (Rat)
Groom's mother: 28 Feb 1957 (Rooster)
Bride's father: 28 Apr 1956 (Monkey)
Bride's mother: 22 Oct 1959 (Pig)

Also, we intend to do ROM separately on 22 June 2015, is that fine?

 

[skylet]

Dear Master Tong,

We are looking to hold our customary wedding in 2015 and below are the DOB details:

Groom: 4/11/1986 (tiger)
Bride: 13/06/1985 (ox)
Groom dad: 01/07/1947 (pig)
Groom mum: 22/12/1947(pig)
Bride dad: 16/05/1940 (dragon)
Bride mum: 24/03/1948 (rat)

Are the dates 1 Nov or 8 Nov 2015 good for our customary wedding? If not, could you kindly advise which dates are good?

Thanks a lot for your help in advance!

 

[babiebear]

Hi Master Tong,

We need to prepare our wedding within 100 days due to the passing of one of our parents. We are looking at suitable dates in Jan and Feb 2015 (latest by 04 Feb 2014). Could you pls advice?

Groom: 03 Oct 1984 (Rat)
Bride: 04 May 1983 (Pig)
Groom's Dad (Passed on): 28 Oct 1948 (Rat)
Groom's Mom: 22 Dec 1948 (Rat)
Groom's Sis: Rabbit
Bride's Dad: 30 Dec 1947 (Dog)
Bride's Mom: 17 Sep 1959 (Pig)
Bride's Bro: Rat
Bride's Bro: Rooster

Thank you very much.

 

[Peridot7]

Hi master tong,

My bf and I are keen to do our rom and wedding banquet on 9 jan 2016.

Could you advise if this is a good date as I read one of your earlier messages that 6 jan to 3 feb 2016 is generally not a good period for wedding?

Bride - 25 July 1983 (pig)
Groom - 15 oct 1984 (rat)

Bride's mum - 18 April 1954 (horse)
Bride's dad - 5 mar 1943 (goat)

Groom's mum - 19 July 1959 (pig)
Groom's dad - 7 July 1954 (horse)

Thanks much in advance for your assistance and advice!

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Fabian and Queenie

By right 2015 is not a good yr for wedding as goat yr clashes to ox, one of you

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi naiyoucreamy

Below are the general tong shu gd dates:

-04/11, 15/11, 29/11, 06/12, 18/12, 22/12, 30/12

* Note that tong shu dates are generic dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration. A good date in the tong shu can still be deemed inauspicious if the bazi are not compatible with the dates*

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Fabian and Queenie

>>You mentioned ROM date is more critical than the Banquet. Thus does it matter if the Banquet date is not a general good date.

If really choice then that will be the last option.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi karen86

Below r the rom dates:

- 7/12-5/1 is Sui Po, bad month for wedding/rom
- 06/01, 18/01 (only 2 dates left that dont clash anyone)

Hope this helps
* Note that tong shu dates are generic dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration. A good date in the tong shu can still be deemed inauspicious if the bazi are not compatible with the dates*

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Foodaholic

The tong shu for 2016 will only be out in Sept 2015 next yr,hence if you are looking for generic dates only, i can only advise after the tong shu is out.

For now the only way to select is using bazi only

David Tong

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi GisT

100 days before and after your wedding, you cannot attend any other wedding, and vice versa. So you have to factor these in then let me know.
Plus i need both your zodiac signs and both side parents animal zodiac signs

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi shirley84ger

I need to know which mth you looking at as entire yr is too big a range. pls repost all your details again in your next post.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi MM1986

the only gd weekend left and dont clash anyone will be 22/11

 

[cmg_consulting]

HI DianaRaymond

14/3 is a Year Breaker day, very bad day for wedding

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi jolix

That is not a general tong shu good date for wedding, but it doesnt clash to anyone too.

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi C&S

That is a general good date for wedding, provided none of your parents and both of you are Ox as that day clash Ox

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Lily90

2016 for customary wedding is fine

28/2 is within CNY 15 days, and usually Chinese dont get married during CNY period. Best to do in march after CNY.

If weekend, then earliest gd weekend will be 21/3/2015

 

[cmg_consulting]

HI tulipkiss

Below are the general tong shu dates

- 15/11, 06/12, 12/12

Rest of the gd weekend clashes to your or parents

* Note that tong shu dates are generic dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration. A good date in the tong shu can still be deemed inauspicious if the bazi are not compatible with the dates*

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi skylet

2015 is not a good yr for wedding as that is Goat yr and clashes to Ox, the bride

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi babiebear

Below are teh general dates

- 7/12-5/1 is Sui Po, bad month for wedding/rom
- 09/01, 15/1, 21/01 (weekends all clashes )

* Note that tong shu dates are generic dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration. A good date in the tong shu can still be deemed inauspicious if the bazi are not compatible with the dates*

 

[cmg_consulting]

Hi Peridot7

Yes that period is 岁破month, bad mth for wedding or rom

 

[babiebear]

Hi babiebear

Below are teh general dates

- 7/12-5/1 is Sui Po, bad month for wedding/rom
- 09/01, 15/1, 21/01 (weekends all clashes )

* Note that tong shu dates are generic dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration. A good date in the tong shu can still be deemed inauspicious if the bazi are not compatible with the dates*

hello master tong,

thank you for your advice. how about rom and tea ceremony on 31/01/2015 (sat) or 01/02/2015 (sun)?

thank you.

 

[Fabian and Queenie]

Hi Fabian and Queenie

>>You mentioned ROM date is more critical than the Banquet. Thus does it matter if the Banquet date is not a general good date.

If really choice then that will be the last option.

Hi Master Tong,

What other dates will you suggest us to hold our Chinese wedding?

Thanks in advance.

 

[GisT]

Hi GisT

100 days before and after your wedding, you cannot attend any other wedding, and vice versa. So you have to factor these in then let me know.
Plus i need both your zodiac signs and both side parents animal zodiac signs

Hi Master Tong,
Groom - 4 March 1978 (goat)
Bride - 27 October 1988 (dragon)

Groom father - 22 May 1940 (dragon)
Groom mother - 10 April 1952 (dragon)

Bride father - 15 February 1952 (dragon)
Bride mother - 5 May 1954 (horse)

As my friends' weddings are on 31st May & Jun 21, 2015 would you be able to advise me on a good date 100days after Jun 21st (I.e After 29.09.2015) Or a date 100days before 31st May (I.e before 20.02.2015)?
Thank you!