Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)


cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi dor_dor

That is fine, so long as you choose a good date for ur wedding :)

Silings cannot get married on the same lunar yr. If really no choice, it must be at least 100 days apart
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi eiko

Dec 2014 is a Year Breaker month, hence not a good mth for all impt activities including ROM or Wedding

For 2015, the goat yr clashes to Ox, hence Ox is not advisable to hold wedding in 2015
 

lvan025

New Member
Hi Master Tong, just wondering is 15 February 2015 good day for wedding for tiger hubby (10 December 1974) and monkey (4/4/1980) thanks!
 

Gisele Jasmine

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I would like to know if 12 or 13 June 2015 is a good date for wedding and if it clashes with both families?

Groom: 29 December 1980 (Monkey)
Bride: 1 December 1981 (Rooster)

Groom's Dad: 1946 (Dog)
Groom's Mom: 1946 (Dog)

Bride's Dad: 1953 (Snake)
Bride's Mom: 1952 (Dragon)

Thank you.
Gisele Jasmine
 

Chin Heng

New Member
Hi Chin Heng

The way to avoid is to get married on a different yr. If realy no choice, then ROM in 2014 so that at least you are officially married in a gd yr

I need you to repost ALL your info again.

Hi Master Tong,

Info of the groom and bride.

Groom: 24.07.1985, Cow
Bride : 05.03.1987, Rabbit

We intended to get marry on the 10 Oct 2015, but as you mentioned it will be double clash on the day. the other dates we have in mind:
(i) 3 Oct 2015 ( Sat)
(ii) 11 Oct 2015 (Sun)
(iii) 17 Oct 2015 (Sat)

As you mentioned if there is really no choice we have to ROM in 2014 ?

Really appreciate your help.
 

WaiLeng

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

As mentioned, the year of goat is not a good year for Ox to get married. Hence, what will be a good date (Sat preferred) for the marriage of a couple with the following particulars:

Groom: 20 Sep 1973 (Ox)
Bride: 25 Dec 1981 (Rooster)

Thank you,
Leng
 

fionanwl

New Member
Hi Master Tong

Understand that the year of goat is not a good year for Ox to get married. Would like to check if 2 Feb 2015 or 14 July 2015 will be good dates to ROM? The particulars of the couple is as follow:

Groom: 11 Jan 1986 (Ox)
Bride: 14 July 1989 (Snake)

Thanks in advance.

Regards,
Fiona
 

lvan025

New Member
Hi Master Tong. Any good wedding dates in week of 15 to 22 February 2015? Birthday groom is 10/12/1974 and bride 04/04/80. Brides parents 12/02/1955 and 09/12/1959. Thank you very much!
 

deathero85

New Member
Hi Mr Tong,

You indicated 7th December 2014 - 5th January 2015 as Year Breaker Month.

However, I only read about Year Breaker Day and Month Breaker Day. May I ask what is Year Breaker Month?

We are thinking of ROM on 20 Dec 2014. Groom (Pig) Bride (Ox). Is it suitable?
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Ivan

That day clash Dragon. If any of your parents is Dragon, then this day is out. Else it is a potentially good date, but have to wait for tong shu to be out to check for general gd date.

right now the only way to do it is using Bazi, which is the correct and accurate method. Tong Shu are just generic dates only and for mass consumption only. A good date in the tong shu , if not compatible with both your bazi, can still turn out to be a bad date.

Hope this helps :)
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Chin Heng

Only 11th and 17th is a potential good date. 11th clash Tiger. 17th clash MOnkey. So your parents cannot be those zodiac signs.

the tong shu for 2015 is not out yet so i cannot check for general good dates.

I used mainly the Bazi method to calculate for 2015 and 2016 dates. Tong Shu are just generic dates only and for mass consumption only. A good date in the tong shu , if not compatible with both your bazi, can still turn out to be a bad date. Bazi dates are more precise and accurate and it s chosen specifcally based on both your birth data

Hope this helps :)
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
HI Lilin04

yes using bazi will still be the same, except that we can choose an even better date compared tong shu in a not so gd yr (personalised vs mass consumption dates).

ROM is more impt. So if really end up no choice, then ROM in 2014 first , so at least you are offiically married in 2014 then in 2015. This is if all else fails :)
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi deathero85

That is the Sui Po 岁破month. Every yr there is a month that clashes to the yr, which makes the month not so good for impt activities. For 2014 Horse yr, the Rat month, which is in Dec, clashes to Horse yr. Hence the reason why Dec is not that fantastic for this yr
 
Hi Master Tong,

Are the below dates good for marriage between Groom - 20/07/1985 (Ox), Bride - 20/06/1983 (Boar)?
Groom Father is born in the year of Tiger. Groom Mum is born in the year of Dragon. Bride Mum is born in the year of Rooster.
  • 4/Oct/2015
  • 11/Oct/2015
  • 24/Oct/2015
  • 8/Nov/2015
Please kindly advise. Thank you.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Fabian and Queenie

As groom is born OX yr, 2015 goat yr actually clashes to Ox, hence by right not a good yr for wedding .

Hope this helps :)

David Tong
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Dear all,

I will giving a Wedding Date & Feng Shui talk at the coming Amara Wedding Showcase on 28th September 2014. Do drop by that day and say "Hi" :) if you got any questions concerning wedding or feng shui, you can also drop by my booth. See you :)

David Tong
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Fabian and Queenie

For 2014, FYI, next mth will be too rush, mid Oct to Mid Nov will be leap mth and usually Chinese don't hold wedding in that period. Dec is a bad mth for wedding. Hence you are left with end Nov or Jan only . So let me know which mth you looking at and weekends or weekdays

FYI, I can only advise the general good dates based on Tong Shu. But these are generic dates only and not matched to bazi yet, as a good date in tong shu can still be considered bad if the date and the bazi are not compatible.

David Tong
 

jjjk

Member
Hi Master Tong,

Could you please advise what cannot be done during the time of the day that clashes with a zodiac?

Groom is Monkey and bride is Dog but Dog clashes between 7-9am for any given day. Can the groom receive the bride within these hours? If not, can we still do gate crashing as long as we do not leave the bride's house before 9am? Or can the bride be received as long as we don't go to the groom's before 9am?

Thank you in advance.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi jjjk

The timing that clashes to the zodic of bride and groom is not important. Most important is the Day itself dont clash as that has the highest weightage. So basically you can do anything you want, not to worry :)

David Tong
 
Hi Fabian and Queenie

For 2014, FYI, next mth will be too rush, mid Oct to Mid Nov will be leap mth and usually Chinese don't hold wedding in that period. Dec is a bad mth for wedding. Hence you are left with end Nov or Jan only . So let me know which mth you looking at and weekends or weekdays

FYI, I can only advise the general good dates based on Tong Shu. But these are generic dates only and not matched to bazi yet, as a good date in tong shu can still be considered bad if the date and the bazi are not compatible.

David Tong

Hi Master Tong,

May I have the good dates for both Nov and Jan? Preferably weekends. Does the good dates involve siblings's zodiac too?
Between do we need to have tea ceremony on the ROM day. Please advise.

Thanks.
 

leejacc

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Are the below dates good for marriage (ROM&AD) between Groom - 25/12/1983 (pig), Bride - 28/12/1986 (tiger)?
Groom Father is born in the year of Ox , Groom Mum is born in the year of Monkey.
Bride Father is born in the year of Dragon, Bride Mum is born in the year of Horse.
  • 24/Oct/2015
  • 26/Dec/2015
  • 27/Dec/2015
Thanks for your help.
 

Xjy

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Please advice if the date 28 Feb 2015 or 21 Feb 2015 more suitable for marriage for the following -

Groom - 26/08/1986 (Tiger)
Bride - 18/10/1983 (Pig)

Groom's father (ox), Groom's mother (mouse)
Bride's father (rabbit), Bride's mother (rooster)

Thanks for your help.
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Xjy

Those are not general good dates for wedding + they are within 15 days of CNY and no Chinese get married within the 15 days CNY period

David Tong
 

jazcutie

New Member
Hi Master David

May I know when the Tong Shu for auspicious dates in 2015 be out? Understand there are a few variations and some are out already. Which copy are you using?

Thanks.
 

Michchaiky

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Kindly assist to advise an auspicious date for our ROM, preferably two options of 1 weekday and 1 weekend from January 2015 to March 2015.

Groom: 14 Jun 1982 (Dog)
Bride: 15 May 1983(Pig)

Groom's Dad: 12 Oct 1951 (Rabbit)
Groom's Mom: 04 Apr 1949 (Ox)

Bride's Dad: 27 Sep 1957 (Rooster)
Bride's Mom: 01 Jun 1961 (Ox)

Greatly appreciate your help
Thank you
 
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twinklebelles

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Good Evening =)

Could you assist to advise an auspicious date for our AD wedding preferably in the 2nd quarter - 4th quarter year of 2016 ( On a weekend )

Two dates in consideration :

- 28/5/2016
- 18/6/2016
- Nov to Dec 2016 ??

Groom: 26 Aug 1987 (Rabbit)
Bride: 18 Nov 1987(Rabbit)

Groom's Dad: Sheep (1955) + Groom's Mom: Pig (1959) +Groom's Sister : Snake (1989)
Bride's Dad: Rat (In Heaven)+ Bride's Mom: Tiger (In Heaven)+Bride's Brother : Monkey (1992)

Is 2017 the year of rooster a good year for Rabbit to get married too as there are saying Rooster & Rabbit will clashes in term of zodiac ?

Greatly appreciate your help a lot as we wish to shortlist & book our hotel venue early to avoid disappointment

Thank you very much
 

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi twinklebelles

The tong shu for 2016 will only be out next yr Sept. Right now the only way to do it is using bazi to calculate but i do charge for this as this is part of my consultation service, else will be unfair to my paying clients.

2017 is a bad yr for wedding coz it is rooster yr and clashes to rabbit.

Hope this helps :)
 

Paragon

Member
Hi master tong, is 30 may 2015 a general good day for rats? Both bride and groom are rats. Parents are snake and rabbit. Thanks!! ☺
 

shineshine

New Member
Hi master tong,

We are intending to Rom on November 2014. Please help to advise which weekend in Nov 2014 will be good date.

Groom: 23 Dec 1980-monkey
Bride: 02 april 1982-dog

Groom parents: dog and pig
Bride parents: pig and rabbit

Thanks in advance
 


Saccharinedoses

New Member
Hi Master Tong,


my bf and I are planning to ROM in end 2015, could you provide the good dates on weekends for us between Oct 2015 to Dec 2015?


Groom: 14 May 1988 (Dragon)

Bride: 24 April 1988 (Dragon)


Groom's father: Tiger (1962)

Groom's mother: Rabbit (1963)


Bride's father: Snake (1953)

Bride's mother: Ox (1961)


Thank you so much!
 

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