Oh dear. I didn''t realise it's blowing up so big. Don't worry Zoeanne, I hope your co-ordinator's nice enough and won't blame you for anything. cos you only telling the truth what. i.e. what you got. If they not willing to offer the same perks then they gotta accept that some people won't be happy.
I mean it's normal for us brides to want a 2nd nite stay cos it's usually something we negotiate for. If we don't get it, then of course we not as happy. cos some other hotels do give it thro negotiation. I mean, not only compared with your perks lor. we also got eyes and brain to compare with other hotels. and I don't see why they are so unwilling with the hotel stay cos like I said before I checked out, there are 9 bridal suites. so even if yesterday's 2 bridal couples staying an additional night today plus tonights bridal couples staying, only 4 suites occupied what. anyway, this is their own decision and if it makes them less attractive to potential brides, then they have to accept it and not blame any of us lor.
I find it very unprofessional of M Hotel to call you and "warn" you lor. cos if this is what they are giving then be open abt it. if they can't offer the same anymore, then also be open about it and don't need to be so defensive and secretive lor. at the end of the day, we can't do anything to them if they don't give us everything we want. We also will make up our own minds whether we are satisfied with the package or whether we want to go to other hotels. It's an open market lor and we should have the freedom to make an informed choice.
Dunno if after this, they will blacklist me since I haven't signed up yet. But I feel this (i.e. keeping quiet) is something we shouldn't be "blackmailed" into lor. If they now don't want to give me good service or the perks anymore, then so be it but they must realise that we will definitely share our experiences with our friends, relatives and even people in forums.
AS for those potential brides, next time negotiate also don't put the brides who were nice enough to share their details to you in jeapordy lah. you know that they got somethings also no need to mention to the co-ordinator unless the bride agreed you can mention their name lor. not fair to the bride mah.