hi starwee,
Do provide me with your email add if you require his photo.... I am sure he will ask whether are both of u buddhism? If so, he will talk a little during your solemnisation. You can request not if you are not or you dun wish and see what he say.....
I would like to say sorry first..... As for your friends, you have invited them to witness your solemnisation whether they belong to other religion,errrr.... I believe that they have to respect you and each other religion even though there is a religion speech...
Try talking to Mr Chia, he is a very nice person to talk to....