Hi all..
Me and husband got married 13 years ago. We tried for many years for kids but to no avail. Just 5 years ago, my husband had an affair with his colleague. He left her and came back to me and I forgive him. We had trust issues but are trying to build it back again.
My fil committed suicide 2 years back and my husband is the only son. No choice, we got to fetch my mil over to stay with us. My mom kept telling me that my mil is so pitiful and I got to be more caring towards her.
It was nightmare staying with her. She is very lazy who doesn't even washed her own clothes but she insisted to cook meals every day. If I inform her that I would miss the dinner that day, her face would turn black. And worse still, her cooking taste bad and she added alot of msg in the dishes. After meal, she would just quickly wash her plates and sit down to watch tv. When I am not at home, she would wash my husband plates. When I am home, she would let me do the washing thinking that all the house work should be done by me. All the plates washed by her are so oily that I will have to rewash again.
There was once when me and my husband went out and was not home by 10pm. She kept calling my husband but he did not answer. When I reached home around 12am(my husband went to the supermarket to buy bread), my mil dashed out of her room and scolded me. I was like????? She is not even my mom to begin with. Just last week, I caught her peeping into our room.
Seriously, me and my husband are trying to build our relationship back but my mil is destroying it! I really can't stand her anymore. I wanted to move out soon!
Me and husband got married 13 years ago. We tried for many years for kids but to no avail. Just 5 years ago, my husband had an affair with his colleague. He left her and came back to me and I forgive him. We had trust issues but are trying to build it back again.
My fil committed suicide 2 years back and my husband is the only son. No choice, we got to fetch my mil over to stay with us. My mom kept telling me that my mil is so pitiful and I got to be more caring towards her.
It was nightmare staying with her. She is very lazy who doesn't even washed her own clothes but she insisted to cook meals every day. If I inform her that I would miss the dinner that day, her face would turn black. And worse still, her cooking taste bad and she added alot of msg in the dishes. After meal, she would just quickly wash her plates and sit down to watch tv. When I am not at home, she would wash my husband plates. When I am home, she would let me do the washing thinking that all the house work should be done by me. All the plates washed by her are so oily that I will have to rewash again.
There was once when me and my husband went out and was not home by 10pm. She kept calling my husband but he did not answer. When I reached home around 12am(my husband went to the supermarket to buy bread), my mil dashed out of her room and scolded me. I was like????? She is not even my mom to begin with. Just last week, I caught her peeping into our room.
Seriously, me and my husband are trying to build our relationship back but my mil is destroying it! I really can't stand her anymore. I wanted to move out soon!