Whygetmarried
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Anyone felt like Bf/husband doesn't love you and is just going through the motion to get married, just like a normal life progression?
Anyone felt like Bf/husband doesn't love you and is just going through the motion to get married, just like a normal life progression?
this sounds like me. guilty lolxThanks for your replies!! I am married for less than 4years but gradually I begin to feel that my husband married me only because it is a natural progression in life and out of his own needs.
When difficulties strike and I am at my lowest, he can easily say divorce because he don’t think “this” is what he signed up for or this is not what he wants or when angry can ask me to get out of the house.
All these made me think/feel that he married me only bcuz 1) marriage is a natural progression in his life; 2) of all the good things in a marriage and 3) what I can give him.. and not because he loves me, wants to be with me, grow old with me, protect me etc...
Hahahah. Ermm.. Why you like that though?this sounds like me. guilty lolx
There seem to be alot of guessing here. It seem to be all about you think and feel. Have you asked him right in the face whether he loves you ?Thanks for your replies!! I am married for less than 4years but gradually I begin to feel that my husband married me only because it is a natural progression in life and out of his own needs.
When difficulties strike and I am at my lowest, he can easily say divorce because he don’t think “this” is what he signed up for or this is not what he wants or when angry can ask me to get out of the house.
All these made me think/feel that he married me only bcuz 1) marriage is a natural progression in his life; 2) of all the good things in a marriage and 3) what I can give him.. and not because he loves me, wants to be with me, grow old with me, protect me etc...
This is so negative and irresponsible advice.In Singapore the system is anti marriage and pro divorce. Don't bother taking marriage seriously. Those natural progression nonsense is bs.
In fact, best not to have children at all. Family court is a biased place full of injustice. Seen too many suffer as a result of family court.
Children have become the worst weapons anyone can imagine. It is legal to coach them to harm the other parent and none of the authorities will even bother to help.