How do I turn my relationship back to normal??

[Geraldine Ho]

Hi,
I have been with my BF for a few years. He used to sleep around 2am latest last time. But recently, his body clock somehow changed. He is only sleeping around 7am and wakes up around 4pm. We can't go out much either since he sleeps most of the day away and I cant go out too late into the night.

And recently he stopped eating regular meals. Now, he only eats like 1 meal a day. He is already very very skinny to begin with. I keep bringing meals to him but hes always saying he's not hungry. So, recently I have been eating alone even when I'm with him.

So many things have changed in the last 2-3 weeks and I am having difficulty coping the change. We are always quarreling when we meet, even though we both tried to make things work.

How can I turn my r/s back to normal? I seriously have no idea what caused all these changes.

 

[octobride]

Does he work? Is he a gamer?

 

[miloice]

what kind of future do you want ? Is he on shift work or something?

 

[buddhabar]

The way you descript your bf sounds like he's a junkie or chronic gamer. What can of a lifestyle does only 1 meal in a day.

 

[Geraldine Ho]

hes not a gamer. we both work from home. and our timing is flexible. thats why he can sleep at any time he wants. I dunno if I should bring him to some really appetizing food places so that he can get back his appetite. or dunno if its some illness.

I just want a r/s where we can accompany each other. now we seldom get to talk cos hes asleep when im awake and vice versa...

 

[newproject]

hes not a gamer. we both work from home. and our timing is flexible. thats why he can sleep at any time he wants. I dunno if I should bring him to some really appetizing food places so that he can get back his appetite. or dunno if its some illness.

I just want a r/s where we can accompany each other. now we seldom get to talk cos hes asleep when im awake and vice versa...

some context please. How old are both of you?

 

[SnowAngelx93]

Have you asked him why he suddenly changes his sleeping habit?

 

[life_is]

hes not a gamer. we both work from home. and our timing is flexible. thats why he can sleep at any time he wants. I dunno if I should bring him to some really appetizing food places so that he can get back his appetite. or dunno if its some illness.

I just want a r/s where we can accompany each other. now we seldom get to talk cos hes asleep when im awake and vice versa...

Used to sleep 4am and work crazy hours with one meal a day to save money to support scumbags. Could be stress.