Hi Dearris,
No point feeling regret since you had already signed up with HIPV. Moreover, your AD is coming in a few months..
After viewing your post, my heart drop also. Like you, I'm also concern on food and ballroom layout. Will also concern whether friends and relatives allocated to "the island" (lower ceiling ballroom) will feel left out or whether they will hate the food or whether my wedding banquet will become the worst banquet they had attended in their entire life...
But come to think of it, can't please every single person. Given the good price, there are always some things that we have to accept.... Unless you really hate that place to core, then you might want to look into other places.
So cheer up! Be a beautiful bride and enjoy your day.
This is how I feel, no offence pls..