amazingpiggy
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Posted on Wednesday, August 22, 2012 - 8:48 pm: Â Â Â Â Â
My husband mention separation last month. I ask him why he said he is tired of this relationship. he just wan to move back to his mom. He mention he is already very tired of this relationship since I am pregnant.
The story goes like this....
2nd month after I give birth, he start by moving to sofa to sleep. He said is more windy in the living room. At first i thought is because of baby cry, which disturb his sleep. Weeks later, I ask him the real reason over SMS. He said he is tired of this marriage, wanted to file for separation. He said my temper towards him was very bad.he cannot tolerate. We had some quarrel when I was pregnant. During confinement, we also quarrel. He said he every time see me black face very sian. He rather work than come home and see me...he said let him go.I am sad. I ask him whether is he meeting someone new. He said no. Next day, I ask for reconcile, I will not take him for granted, and hope to have a loving family for ourselves and my child.
He didn't say anything.
He now return to sleep on our bed. He will SMS me how is baby when he is working. We talk to each other after his work.
But I still can sense his coldness.
Does he still love me? Is he hanging on because of our child?
I dare not to ask him. I scared I will trigger another bomb. Should I wait till everything settle then ask him? Is it once a man said he no longer love anymore, there no way to make Him come back.
My husband mention separation last month. I ask him why he said he is tired of this relationship. he just wan to move back to his mom. He mention he is already very tired of this relationship since I am pregnant.
The story goes like this....
2nd month after I give birth, he start by moving to sofa to sleep. He said is more windy in the living room. At first i thought is because of baby cry, which disturb his sleep. Weeks later, I ask him the real reason over SMS. He said he is tired of this marriage, wanted to file for separation. He said my temper towards him was very bad.he cannot tolerate. We had some quarrel when I was pregnant. During confinement, we also quarrel. He said he every time see me black face very sian. He rather work than come home and see me...he said let him go.I am sad. I ask him whether is he meeting someone new. He said no. Next day, I ask for reconcile, I will not take him for granted, and hope to have a loving family for ourselves and my child.
He didn't say anything.
He now return to sleep on our bed. He will SMS me how is baby when he is working. We talk to each other after his work.
But I still can sense his coldness.
Does he still love me? Is he hanging on because of our child?
I dare not to ask him. I scared I will trigger another bomb. Should I wait till everything settle then ask him? Is it once a man said he no longer love anymore, there no way to make Him come back.