Hi Babyfaery,
when is ur AD in Dec 09? i'm a Dec 09 BTB too and having it at GH too. Just paid my deposit yesterday. heh.
u know it might be pantang, but sometimes it's not so good to change AD dates too much.. just a sense i get from ppl in forums, friends etc. I personally feel it's fated if u choose a certain date and it is a good date.
I agree with u the black and red is nice, but guess sometimes some elders cannot accept it. My mum is 1 good example. haha. in the end i'm thinking of using the white and gold. still thinking about it.
which function room are u looking at? i think that plays a part in deciding ur layout of the theme.
think the white base theme can be classy. Just gotta make sure the flowers u chooe for the table arrangement doesn't blend in lor
just my 2cents worth. heh.