Hi Chin Leng,
Yes that could happen. But there's nothing they can do about it, since I'm not budging on hibiscus room.
Our policy is we're only inviting the relatives, and very close friends and very very close colleagues.
We're solving the parents guest list problems by giving them 2 tables each and they can 'rank' their own friends and decide who gets to come.
I know this sounds bad, but i don't really care whether my parents friends turn up. Afterall, I don't even know them, and as such it doesn't matter whether they are there or not.
I also know others say this is not my wedding, but my parents, but it's the new millenium for goodness sake! It's time to make a stand.
Obviously, my parents aren't very happy about it, but I told them I will budge on everything else except the number of tables issue. So I chose the battle I wanted and am saying yes to everything else as a compromise. eg. we didn't want the studio and wedding pics, but the parents wanted, so we said OK, among other things.
Thanks for the warning though!