seekinghappiness
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I came to fall in love with a married woman whom wanted to leave her husband.
Initially I came to know her, her life was so messy and I feel kinda sad for her and wanted to protect her and provide her a good family and home.Her husband has not had intimacy with her for past 5 years sincer her second child and she had depression after her 2nd child birth and she will cut her wrist whenever she feels sad.
Eventually she felt fed up with her husband cause he will come home drunk with perfume n lipstick and all the signs of outside affairs.She started clubbing 2 years back and taken up smoking too cause she dont want to feel depressed.
Over past 2 years she got into relationship with 8 different guys whom mostly played her out.
We came together she was very determined to leave her husband.She stayed over at mine home since then and asked for divorce n separation.
But 3 weeks back her husband came and begged her and she relented and moved back cause her husband also said her daughter suffering from depression whom she was very worried with.
After she moved back she digged her husband phone and found a womans name and her message is not simple and eventually found and item on the credit card statement but her husband lied alot of times.
Later on eventually last week she somehow managed to found out her husband has been fooling outside since 5 years back when she was pregnent and she was so upset.
However,the worst thing she found out is that her kid told her that ,"mummy i dont like that aunty one" her husband admitted about the resturant with that lady and they only had hugs n kisses thats all.But they brought out both families out together.She climbed to highest floor and sit out on the ledge almost wanted to jump but managed to come out after that guy said the daughter will be very guilty.
I told her that u still got feeling with him and stop cheating herself but she said they are together for 8 years if she say no will i believe or not, she know that the feeling is not lover is more like family.
So she want me to continue with her as her boyfriend and lover now and wait for her to settle things with that guy and marry me after one year.Saying she move back is only for the daughter.
I dont know if I should wait or not.And I also dont know if she really meant what she said cause initially she said she got no feeling for that guy but her reaction over the guy fooling since her pregnent and recently with that woman showed that she still cares alot.
From mine own understanding most woman would have demand immidiate divorce but she didnt.
Initially I came to know her, her life was so messy and I feel kinda sad for her and wanted to protect her and provide her a good family and home.Her husband has not had intimacy with her for past 5 years sincer her second child and she had depression after her 2nd child birth and she will cut her wrist whenever she feels sad.
Eventually she felt fed up with her husband cause he will come home drunk with perfume n lipstick and all the signs of outside affairs.She started clubbing 2 years back and taken up smoking too cause she dont want to feel depressed.
Over past 2 years she got into relationship with 8 different guys whom mostly played her out.
We came together she was very determined to leave her husband.She stayed over at mine home since then and asked for divorce n separation.
But 3 weeks back her husband came and begged her and she relented and moved back cause her husband also said her daughter suffering from depression whom she was very worried with.
After she moved back she digged her husband phone and found a womans name and her message is not simple and eventually found and item on the credit card statement but her husband lied alot of times.
Later on eventually last week she somehow managed to found out her husband has been fooling outside since 5 years back when she was pregnent and she was so upset.
However,the worst thing she found out is that her kid told her that ,"mummy i dont like that aunty one" her husband admitted about the resturant with that lady and they only had hugs n kisses thats all.But they brought out both families out together.She climbed to highest floor and sit out on the ledge almost wanted to jump but managed to come out after that guy said the daughter will be very guilty.
I told her that u still got feeling with him and stop cheating herself but she said they are together for 8 years if she say no will i believe or not, she know that the feeling is not lover is more like family.
So she want me to continue with her as her boyfriend and lover now and wait for her to settle things with that guy and marry me after one year.Saying she move back is only for the daughter.
I dont know if I should wait or not.And I also dont know if she really meant what she said cause initially she said she got no feeling for that guy but her reaction over the guy fooling since her pregnent and recently with that woman showed that she still cares alot.
From mine own understanding most woman would have demand immidiate divorce but she didnt.
