Despair of a Fellow friend of mine.

[Zechary Peter Sugianto]

One of my close friend shared with me that he had caught his future spouse met her ex boyfriend at different places just few months to their wedding. He even spy on his future spouse and saw what people will say drastic, his future spouse kissing, hugging and not even just that, they both caressed and touch each others body and private parts. For examply he says that theres one time when his future spouse masturbate for her ex boyfriend and that ex boyfriend of hers caressing and touching her breast. More worst is that the ex boyfriend well fingered her. My friend was so distraught and feeling extremely emotional. The wedding planning goes well with his future spouse acts like nothing happen. I dont know of what good advice i can give him.

 

[ichinx]

There could b due to some possibilities of the future spouse's action:

1) Feeling excited of the secret sexual rship she had as this could drive her to feel wanted/attractive when she is already having a partner and getting married;

2) Way to get her stress out over the future life she is going to led after marriage;

3) Both have failed intimate rship;

4) Worst of all it could be just her lust and she loves the secret rship be it with the ex or any guy she can hitch up;

5) Lists goes on...

No matter whatever it is..seriously your friend is facing a risk marriage. The way to ensure the rship are healthy before too late he needs to relook into the rship and if possible solve it between them else he may have to cont wait till the gal walk out of his life or cont to live in this insecure marriage later on.

Hope things work out for em