Hi everyone, I wanted to get your inputs on a scenario, please. It may be a small thing but I would like to hear from people here.
TLDR: My boyfriend (22M) had an exchange in another country so we had a long distance relationship for half a year.
Overseas, he met a group of locals who also went on exchange there and he had a better relationship with one of the girl (22F). They text pretty often and have meals such as lunch and dinner together with other locals which is a group of 5-8.
I went through their chats and here are some of the ones that I’m personally uncomfortable with. My bf will text her stuff like “不要赌发脾气”, “小妹妹jiayan”. He’ll call her “乖” over texts a couple of times. She’ll text him asking him to tell her stories when she’s bored, she asked him if she’s his favourite out of the whole group of 8. They both like to tease one another about other people who flirts with them or may like them. They discussed about baseline which I’ve learnt is their way of saying who meets their minimum rating because some other guys who flirt with her is below her baseline.
I noticed in the chats they talked about his parents flying over to visit him in that exchange country but nothing was mentioned when I flew over to visit him. It’s as if I’m a ghost and any mention of me may sour their chats.
Thoughts on this please? I strongly believe both of them have low morals, they like the attention because of their insecurity. One is attached yet talks like that to another girl just because she’s lonely and wants male attention. Another knows he’s an attached men but she prefers getting someone attached so it’s like she’s ‘winning’.
TLDR: My boyfriend (22M) had an exchange in another country so we had a long distance relationship for half a year.
Overseas, he met a group of locals who also went on exchange there and he had a better relationship with one of the girl (22F). They text pretty often and have meals such as lunch and dinner together with other locals which is a group of 5-8.
I went through their chats and here are some of the ones that I’m personally uncomfortable with. My bf will text her stuff like “不要赌发脾气”, “小妹妹jiayan”. He’ll call her “乖” over texts a couple of times. She’ll text him asking him to tell her stories when she’s bored, she asked him if she’s his favourite out of the whole group of 8. They both like to tease one another about other people who flirts with them or may like them. They discussed about baseline which I’ve learnt is their way of saying who meets their minimum rating because some other guys who flirt with her is below her baseline.
I noticed in the chats they talked about his parents flying over to visit him in that exchange country but nothing was mentioned when I flew over to visit him. It’s as if I’m a ghost and any mention of me may sour their chats.
Thoughts on this please? I strongly believe both of them have low morals, they like the attention because of their insecurity. One is attached yet talks like that to another girl just because she’s lonely and wants male attention. Another knows he’s an attached men but she prefers getting someone attached so it’s like she’s ‘winning’.
