hi bompipi,
we initially tot the scarlet was too dark but after a while we still stick by it as it was very grandeur and formal. The champagne is far too common theme. In order to perk it up, i asked for extra 4 red sash on each tables. So it will not look dark. Black table cloth is underneath, the red table cloth is on top so it is actually not dark.
everyone praised our bold use of black and red. It turns out really good and grand, we are very happy till today that we insisted to it and till now the guests still think its the way to go. In the end, the elders dint even noticed the black cloth as the red table cloth is on top.
but of course, if your elders are too traditional better heed their advice lah. Yes the dinner is for the elders but its also ur wedding nite, do try to maintain ur dream as well. Once in a lifetime you will walk into the ballroom.
Plus for those who think its gonna be dark, it wont as the lights will not be dimed. It is brighter than most hotels.