Complicated Relationship

[pattywong]

Hello, just need to seek some advice.

Girl & Boy have been together for almost a year. Recently, girl found out that boy might not be true to her as she thought he is. Boy used to promise his other girlfrens the same thing as what he promised girl now. Boy use to say to Girl that she is the only one that made him change, made him do so much for her and hopes to marry her. But Boy also said the same thing to his ex girlfren. Boy does not tell Girl his personal matters and encounters at all. Only sharing those normal daily activities. Girl feels that she does not know much about Boy at all. Girl thinks there are more dark secrets that Boy is hiding.

Should Girl continue being with Boy?

 

[miloice]

What do you want?
What are your expectations and needs in a relationship and marriage? Do you understand yourself to know?

Align them with what you are getting in your relation. Are they inline? If no, can it be realigned? If no, what are you going to do about it? Are you happy despite all these? Will you continue to be happy discovering all these truths?

 

[clark]

Oh shut up fat, ugly and like to stalk pple Milo,

I want you to leave this forum !!!!

Can or not ????

 

[arsenal_84]

if you can't handle his dark secrets, now is the high time to leave.

never marry a guy in hoping that he will change his ways.
if he sincerely wanted to change, he would have change way before marriage.

 

[denise80]

Patty, I don't think you could trust someone who doesn't share his personal matters and encounters. Then again, what do you mean by personal matters and encounters? Do you for instance know his family, friends, where he works etc?

 

[scopefun]

It's not complicated at all...

If you want to know it all... Is it to be a victim (as a conditional receiver) or do you expect the guy should bear with you everything?

Actually... in NORMAL relationship, it'd take time and TIMING for people to reveal to explain to let you in the 'inner circle'. See?

Is this guy really into you, that's the issue. If he is saying things only to get you, then no point. But most importantly, since it takes two hands to clap, do you seriously like him or is he just another 'better' choice you have, like out of no choices?

 

[kellyy84]

I like bad boys and I cannot lie..

 

[scopefun]

Kelly,

Am I bad enough for you? LOL~

 

[michimichichan]

talk to the boy and discuss your feelings together.. no point guessing what he's thinking and feeling so frustrated