skylar: as explained .. heheheheh ..
the husband used to eat with his hands but one day, while we were having thosai at a restaurant in little india, i noticed this girl (late teens) imitating the way the husband eats to her group of friends and they were giggling away - wah, i felt like screaming at them .. i mean, he is trying to learn but due to inconsiderate actions by them, he became self-conscious and stopped eating la. he was worried that he was doing it all wrong .. of course i don't expect him to be able to eat without dropping bits of food here and there on the plate, after all he's used to eating with a fork and spoon .. thing is, people take time to learn lor - really feel like strangling that girl .. after that, i stare daggers at her la! hahahah ..