mayi, on my first vacation there, the husband took me on a weekend trip with some of his friends. one guy drove and we hitched a ride with him .. he was such a safe and 'giving' driver - what was supposed to be an 8-hour drive took about 9.5 hours - because he gave way to almost everyone on the road! but i really got to see his true colours when we were driving back - i think we were about 3 hours' away from reaching home and passing throught this small town when he was so annoyed with this other driver (can't remember exactly what the other person did) but he tailed the other car for quite a while and i did get worried that it might escalate to something else. but luckily the husband managed to calm him down and we went on our way. and then sometime after he got too tired to drive (he didn't allow the husband to drive initially cos it was his dad's car) so the husband took over the wheel. of course the minute he fell asleep, the husband took the opportunity to speed all the way home .. if only he knew what the husband did when he was sleeping .. hahahaha .. the journey back took even longer cos we stopped for proper meals instead of eating takeaway food at the gas stations .. at one pizza joint, we pretended we were americans on vacation .. it was fun .. hahahah ..