Hi Joanne,
Chu jia can only do once.. Better reconsider again.. What's ur hubby say?? U can make 2 dinner de mah.. u can start ur dinner in M'sia 1st, u may stay in ur hubby's house, when time up, u can come out for praying n tea ceremony den follow by a dinner at night. After that, you can chu jia from singapore den follow by dinner..
I tink ur MIL is particular with the praying (pai tang) and tea session..
Please lor, from singapore all the way, 4 hours travel, to malaysia, not tiring meh?? She oso know how to say, dun make sense. Ur mummy angry is rite de, you are her daughter leh, of cos wants u to chu jia from own house. I can understand ur mummy's feeling.
Make it sounds abt the same route, i tink the elderly will accept..
Actually my hubby wants me to chu jia from malaysia, tell u lor, mine is abt 7hrs travel.. More mad rite?? I disagree.. heehee =D
Don't worry lah, still got time.. can change de.. scary tat day u aldy have yellow card to talk loud leh.. never know de.. lol
My AD is 07.03.09 (Customary) den 08.03.09 (dinner) and my Malaysia dinner is one week after.