Hi all, so my boyfriend and I have been together for more than 3 years now. I am late 20s while he is early 30s. We've lived together for about 2 years. I've quit my job and moved countries for him because he had to move for his job. He wanted me to move with him and mentioned that our r/s would progress very slowly if I didn't move. So I did.
So anyway, he had mentioned in 2013 that he expects us to get engaged in 2014. 2014 came and went and nothing happened. Of course I got upset after the deadline went by without a proposal and asked him what was going on. Apparently he felt that 'we' were not ready for marriage and he was not ready to propose either but he is not far away from proposing. I didn't believe him and even asked him if he had even gotten a ring, he said no.
I feel cheated and led on by the whole situation.
Has anyone been in a similar situation before? Did I make the mistake for moving countries with him?
So anyway, he had mentioned in 2013 that he expects us to get engaged in 2014. 2014 came and went and nothing happened. Of course I got upset after the deadline went by without a proposal and asked him what was going on. Apparently he felt that 'we' were not ready for marriage and he was not ready to propose either but he is not far away from proposing. I didn't believe him and even asked him if he had even gotten a ring, he said no.
I feel cheated and led on by the whole situation.
Has anyone been in a similar situation before? Did I make the mistake for moving countries with him?