Any Mixed Marriages here? Esp Chinese-Malay Muslim couple

Marnie, ok i will let you know by lunch time but it's going to be tough for me to say - three of my colleagues are away on course so I'm covering their duties la. Just when I thought that I can skive a little ... hahahaha.

ic and Ally, ya lor ... but luckily my parents are not like that.

Hahahahaha - Ally, I thought you oreadi kena censored because here got some anak daras so cannot say things like that????
 


Ally: What colour did you pick for your home this year?? I want to get a new paint for my room as well but will only do it after Raya for my wedding....since now I'm solemnising at home.
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Oooh...and what bolster ah...? XX-rated liao...
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Cuclainne : Okie dokie. No worries. Just thought one less hassle for you if you checked Equinox early.

IC : Go Equinox to check the Private Dining Room. Not to eat leh...After Raya then go to Equinox for Boss' Day.
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Ally,
No wonder lah.. wah painting house for Hari Raya ah?

Cuclainne,
Envy you lah... at least your parents can cover up here & there. What to do..my hubby singaporean, so bo liao excuse to relatives. Should have married a mat saleh..then more excuses. Hahhaha...oops...
 
Alamak..

Oh ya hor..paisay..muz zip up my mouth wor..Forgot abt the anak daras thingy..hehehe

Marnie,

My living room are splashed with salmon pink with one deep red accent wall for my handknit carpet. At first my fil thot the colour very cheena but then, this morn..voila..works out fine actually.

IC,

ya lor paint for Hari Raya..actually high time for me to repaint my house after a long period of time..hehe..actually ever since I moved in tat is 5 yrs back.
 
Hello gals...

WOW !!! many many posts to read.. gosh.. oh no.. I still yet to figure out the inserting icon thing here lei.. MALU liow.. I have to read all post one by one, very little time in the office to do so.. when I am at home, too lazy to even want to on the PC and also becoz my eyes always clued into the TV watching KOREAN DRAMA. hehehehe.
I saw one meeting up next Wed ?? hmmm .. must inform ya, so that I can bring my collage to show you gals and our group pic of my wedding..

Hello Lilies..
Welcome to the thread.. I am a chinese with a Malay hubby just got married weeks ago, most of them here attended my Wedding. Saw your pic.. sexy and hot mama like everyone mentioned. hehehe.. hope I also can be one when I get a chance. hahahahaha... ( I am the oldest women here )
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Marnie and ic
Honestly, I am on a plump side. One year ago I was 46kg and my condition of hyperthyroidsm relapsed and so, I plumpeted to 60kg now. I am not shy to share this because that's the fact
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lor. It's so convenient to fault the disease, in my case. I love food! Especially cream sauced spaghetti, chinese food, japanese food and more...

Oh.. congrats on the newlywed,
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Elaine. Hello!
 
ic
Do you mind sharing your pic with the lil one here?

I've seen Ally's with her 2 adorable children. I spent the whole nite of yesterday's reading almost all of the posts in this thread. Phew!
 
Cuclainne,
Wah liew..i only married for 1 year+. Now already you making me itchy to marry another hubby? Hahahahahahah...
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What is your email address?

Lilies,
I email you my son's photo. Wah!! you really read ALL the posts???! Amazing!

Elaine,
Understand lah..newly married mah..busy with new hubby.. hehehe. I send you email. Check ok.
 
Lilies, it was ages ago when I was that weight. Hahahaha - never mind, no stress ... more of me to love. Hahahaha.

ic, hahahahahha - please don't ah. Your husband might hentam me and I haven't become a newlywed yet.. Hahahahah. My email addy is [email protected]
 
cuclainne,
I know lah..oklah..don't worry. Won't tell my hubby. Hahhahahah... Must help to ensure that fulfill your dream of becoming a bride.
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By the way, i send you a mail.
 
cuclainne,
I know lah..oklah..don't worry. Won't tell my hubby. Hahhahahah... Must help to ensure that fulfill your dream of becoming a bride.
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By the way, i send you a mail.
 
Elaine

U a Korean drama fan? Me too! Which one are u hooked on to now? Eh, Elaine, I did not receive ur 2nd link leh..dun mind sending me the link? BTW how's ur puasa? Manage to go all the way?
 
ic,

did not receive anything from you lei ?? which email address did you sent to ??

Ally,
me a korean drama freak. now watching "stairway to heaven", next will be "last dance" and more to come. what about yourself ?? which one you watch and would recommand ?? Dont watch "spring day" hor.. danm boring.. waste my money.. I also watched "Da Chang Jing" very good... hmm what else huh ... "lover in paris" and "emory in Bali" also not bad..
My Puasa !!.. hmmm me so useless lor, everyday manage to fast half day.. never follows the breadkfast time. I breakfast as when I like.. hahaha.. very bad.. but today I tried till 430pm then I eat. I dun really dare to wait till I am too hungry then i eat coz I will have gastic pain.. hopefully i can do it one day.. really hope you know..
 
ic
I also placed my vote liao. Did you get my email reply to you? Nice features on that lil boy, you know. All the best and hopes Arshad wins!
 
This thread is bustling! I likey...
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Ally : I LURVE your wall colour combination. Meraj and I are now just looking through the NIPPON colour catalogue - we've not moved beyond a page yet.
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IC : Arshad is SOOOO cute!! I also voted for him too! Not difficult at all!
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Elaine : You're definitely getting there - so proud of you!
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You'll make it one day, I'm sure!

Lilies : NO way!!!?!!? You actually spent the entire night reading all our posts? Gee.....we must be a chatty lot. A fair bit of archives right? I'd go bonkers if I were to do what you did
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Cuclainne : Missed you at Equinox girl. The place is amazing! For your 80 guests, most likely they'll join two dining rooms. Big rectangular rooms to fit 80. Packages come with centrepieces. And there's individual CD player for each room.

I'd probably take them. Private Dining Room 1. Room 1 has got an amazing view of the Singapore River and it's odd shaped and more cozy (low beautiful ceiling). But we have to re-work the menu cos' we're now having an after wedding brunch due to Meraj's self-imposed vege Fridays.
 
Girls,
Thanks all for the vote!
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Lilies,
Yeap i did receive. Thanks!

Elaine,
I send to your yahoo email account..the elainesarah....
You watch the korean drama on TV or on DVD? i'm searching for Jewel in the Palace. Got english subtitles a not... everytime i think about korean, reminds me of a friend who marry a korean man. Also reminds me hor.. before "korean" was hot, my mom got close male korean friend leh.. furthermore that korean friend was still studying in uni. Gave my mother a traditional korean jewellery box. Alamak...she so lucky. You know ah, once she went on a date with a guy.. this guy is a pilot who took her on a helicopter ride! Envious man! My hubby so far... only took me on bicycle ride. Wah liew... cuclainne, should i change hubby a not? Hahahahahah....
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Thanks for your kind words, ic. Hahahaha, don't la - your husband will really hentam me and my Ah Boy would have to defend me. Hahahaha.

Marnie, i left the office quite late so I wouldn't have made it even if I wanted to. But I'm glad that you and Meraj have decided to use their venue - brings you guys back down memory lane ah!
 
Oh Lilies, I just realised that I missed this question of yours. I will get married in January 2006 and have the dinner and such probably in March.
 
Marnie, yuppers ... Ah Boy is serving his two months' notice tomorrow and will hopefully be here before New Year. He's received his contract so he's looking through before signing it.
 
Cuclainne : Better get Ah Boy to do the conversion, efile your marriage application, book your marriage prep class (they are booked 2 months in advance for weekend classes!) and you're all set for your solemnisation in January.
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Oooh..and don't forget the certificate of single status!
 
Yes, I've sent him an email telling him to do the conversion and get the certificate of single status asap. He will be more certain of the date he'll be in Singapore by tomorrow so I will be able to book the dates (for the marriage and prep class) soon after. So excited but at the same time, a little apprehensive. Talked sooo much about when it'll finally happen and now when it's getting so close, beginning to have a little nagging thought ...
 
Cuclainne : It happened to me right after the marriage prep class on Saturday. The moment I stepped outside of the class, I was a bit taken a back. Felt relieved yet at the same time, a bit worried and apprehensive that there's not turning back now...
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Marnie ... Hahahahah - you know what Ah Boy said when I told him that? He said we're darn lucky that we're living in Singapore - at least I can go to my mother's or go out if he really starts to annoy me. It'll be different if we had decided to stay in Stockholm - I have no where to go!!! Lol.
 
Cuclainne : Aooooh! He's a cheeky guy!
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I'm e-filing my marriage application on 17 November and everything seems to be whizzing by now.....Hmm.....not too sure even if I sorted everything out. *paranoid Idyll speaking*
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*wonders where Interrace is*
 
Cuclainne : The marriage must be solemnised before the end of the 150 days (upon efiling) but after expiry of the 7 days upon efiling. You have to count backwards.

Cos' mine's a long weekend holiday, I want to book 150 days early so that at least I can try to get the ustaz that I want to solemnise our marriage. I want the ustaz known as Mr Cool - Ustaz Nor Razak to solemnise. Hopefully can....
 
Cuclainne : No..not say reserve. The efiling system can now allow you to "book" a particular ustaz online. No need to wait till you go to for the interview. Also depends on the officiant's schedule. I have this sneaking feeling I will not get Ustaz Nor Razak cos' he has his office duties at ROMM.
 
cuclainne,
You have to "book" the ustaz way ahead before your actual day. Especially those popular ones.
So that means, you're getting married even earlier than marnie.
 
Cuclainne : Think you should book your marriage prep class for December anyways, no? The efiling and interview afterwards is the last hurdle - you can then concentrate on the nitty gritty wedding stuff.
 
Elaine,

Stairway to heaven...ooh..the story very nice but I dun like Kwong San Woo in this show..he looj very suaku abit leh (most prob he's still new when he filmed this series).

For me - Juz finished watching Da Chang Jin, Little bride 18 n a k-movie - Love, so divine. Am getting lovers in paris soon.

Marnie,

I got my inspiration when I ate this particular icecream - nestle brand.Kinda bold enuff to try bold colours for my house. Now I'm targetting my master bedroom - lilac with dark purple...Looks like my house gonna be like a playhouse soon! With all the contrasting colours!
 
Marnie, there is an interview????

Ladies, want to see some photos of mine??? Can give me your email addy and will forward you the link.
 
wah,

Cuclainne,

wedding bells ringing soon ya? It's true wat Marnie had said - Booking ur marriage prep class n get that cert first. At least now can e-file ur application, previously we had to go all the way to ROMM to file our application. Tedious!!

N yes, there is the interview part. I think my hubby kena question about the 5 pillars of Islam n stuff, so long time back..I can't really remember lah.
 
ic..
I voted for Arshad already, I can use my the other email to vote him too ya ?? he is just so cute and handsome little baby.. hey I watch my korean drama in vcd, cheaper ma, DVD very expensive ya but indeed very clear, and I think only DVD comes with eng sub ?? I think so la. So far all my vcd drama doesnt come with eng sub lei, thats why my hubby always make noise when I start to watch and he doesnt understand.. hahahaha..

Ally,
Actually, i dont quite like "stairway to heaven" find it very draggy lei as you said that male lead very handsome meh ?? maybe he looks beter without his smile, hahaha I still prefered insung. YOu know who ?? the male lead in "memory in Bali" .

Marnie,cuclainne

I am also proud that I can endure till 430pm yesterday before I had my meal, but by the end of the day, gastric started attacked me sia.. sigh ....
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cuclainne..
I want to see your photos, please email me to [email protected]
Thanks in advance.

Anybody did not get my 2nd link to my wedding pic ??
 
Elaine,

Stairway to heaven is ok for me and yes, I would agree that the story is abit draggy. I've not seen Memories in Bali as yet so no comments.

Rgdg ur fasting - Jia You!!

IC,

Jewel in Palace - mine is dvd version ( but ahem..bought in malaysia..u shd know wat type lah hor) Comes with eng subtitles. If u wan..i can lend u mine..but now its circulating somewhere among my SIL's colleagues.
 
Cuclainne : Yeah...think you can go ahead and book your marriage prep class - at least they can put aside the date for you. Then you can go down and fill up particulars and pay the fees.

Actually marrying foreigners very tedious. Meraj has not got off his butt to get the cert. of single status..must breathe down his neck liao...
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Eh..your persandingan, in March? Do the Europeans get Spring break then for them to troop here?

I want to kaypoh see your pics...It's [email protected]

Elaine : Ally and I can be your Ra-Ra girls. Go Elaine Go! Jia you!
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I got both your links for pictures. Thanks!
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Ally : Your house sounds delicious! So colourful and happy! Not the boringo ld staid white washed walls...er...that sounds like the living room of my flat..
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IC & Lilies : Hmmm....why not so chatty today?....Miss you girls leh....
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Marnie, nope there isn't a Spring break so it would be better to have it done in the Summer but I think my parents want to get it done quickly. I spoke to Ah Boy and he can't really be too bothered about it because he said he'd be happy if 1 or 2 of his friends actually make the trip here.
 
Cuclainne,
I want to see!! my email [email protected]
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Marnie,
Busy with my son lah... if free, sure will come online.
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Yah..marnie, which bs you booked ah? I also KPO like Ally.
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Elaine,
Thanks!!!!!! Yeap... you can use your other email to vote as well.
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Thank you!!!
Oh..so it's vcd. Cham leh... i cannot understand mandarin / korean. So definitely need english subtitles.

Ally,
Oh..m'sia. Hahhahah..no wonder lah! Eh, how's things going for your search? I still no newsleh.
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Maybe coz near to end of year?
 
Lilies,
Now my KPO mood also on..like Ally
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Are you inviting the same people who attended your wedding 6 years ago? Coz i wondering, hmm..if it's the same, then they have to give angbao to you twice right? Just wondering how the guests will feel...by the way, how many guests you inviting? If you doing it in Jan, that means you marrying even earlier than cuclainne & marnie.
 


Ally : Woops. Missed your post girl. My wedding will go ahead. No turning back liao.
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My BS is Rouz Couture. Another wedding vendor that bendover backwards to meet my need. I'm a real Bride-zilla I tell you!
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