Hi tri,
May I know what is GHA? Where can I find this shop/label? Sorry, so swa ku hehe.
Hello Sunny,
I ain't no expert, but generally stiff fabrics (eg duchess satin) add weight/bulk, while soft fabrics (silk, crepe, tulle, organza) lose volume and so make you look smaller.
However my gown is duchess satin, which is what most gowns are made of, the big dressy kind that is. My designer Susan told me some people think got big hips then should not have big flowers or bows at the back; but it's not true, they can act as camourflage as in they make people think you are big there only because of the bows! Am I making sense? Hmmm...anyway everyone looks different, does not mean big then must take this fabric or neckline.
I am very strange in the sense that most big brides look better with V-neck, or necklaces that are V-shape. However I look BIGGER when I take V-shapes! I must take round ones. Weird huh? This is why you must try on the dress to see the actual effect. So do not go in with preconceived ideas about what looks good/bad. Good luck!
Hello Shirley,
Sorry to mix you up with Blurydoey
Where did your sis-in-law get her gown? I forgot where you are getting yours too. Big brides can look good, do not feel self-conscious. Small brides look good in their own way, while we look good in our own. Every bride is beautiful, so I believe in feeling good about myself. BTW I'm a UK size 18-20!!!
I've been fat most of my life; after coming out to work my weight went back to my obese teenage days (>80kg!!!!!!) so I am now very happy to just tone up (I hate exercises and love to eat! Doesn't help when my fiance always takes me out to makan

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My family doc says do not waste money to go to slimming centres. Like you said, they also ask you to watch diet and make you exercise. You follow their instructions cos you heart pain the money paid. Plus when someone is there to monitor you and scold you when you slip up, you will consciously control.
When I was 14 I was sent to Outram Park health institute; my mom scolded me cos she also "kena scolding" by the doctor and nurses for "letting" me grow so fat! They are smart, pressurise my mom who in turn watches me like an eagle. I lost 12kg in 6-8 months. But afterthat the weight gain was controlled until I started work
Work stress makes me eat more lor.
Seriously I think we are all not "hopeless" until we need to go see doc. We just need more determination and discipline to exercise and control diet. No easy way out.
So buck up if you really want to lose weight! Eat less, exercise more, is the only way to go! Hehe! Now if only I can practise what I preach! Haha!
