Any big-sized brides with good boutiques to recommend?

[blurydoey]

hi pebbles n joy2003,
aiya dun like that say, kekeke like i tuar u gals...since u gals are more senior n experienced mah..will help out too...

hi strawberry,
I emailed to u liao, so are u coming today?Not just us, still got brides-to be in 2004.
celine,
there is a lot of hotels to choose from. I dun have your kind of budget...sigh..

 

[celine]

no problem, blurydoey. I will keep looking loh,

Strawberry,
nice to meet you too

pebbles, do you know anything about the ex westin stamford one ballroom?

thanks gals for all the help

 

[chub]

Hi all

It had been so quiet over here recently?

Welcome our new members

How is everybody's preparation? All must be quite busy. So far was very glad as everything was in good hands, very happy with my bridal boutique.

Hi Mudpie,

Have you collected your kwa yet. Wondered how it look. Must be ravishing. Have you selected your bridal already. Keep us updated. Was thinking of making one too

Joy2003, Counting down already must be really anxious.

 

[chewie]

Hi Everyone,

I am new to this group and currently studying in Australia. I wish I was in Singapore so that I could have the option of MTM gown. The cost of tailoring here is very expensive!!

Fortunately, it isn't too difficult to find OTR gowns in my size in Australia. But trying to find gowns with sleeves is really hard! 99% of WG are either bustier top or sleeveless and they don't look good on me.

Anyway... I've only just started hunting for my WG. I came across a picture of my dream gown on the internet... if only I could have it tailored!

Just out of curiosity, how much does Bridal Zone charge for MTM gown?

 

[mudpie]

Hello everyone!!!

I'm back!

Glad to see the thread come alive again...but only for a while only ah?

So difficult trying to catch up that I give up already! Been almost a month since I checked in, I think. Well I was busy handing over my work because I am now officially UNemployed! Decide to take a break while hunting for a new job...

Joy2003,
Sorry about your grandma; hope you feel better now *hug*

Pebbles,
Thanks for missing me!

Chub,
I haven't collected my kua...dunno if it's even ready! So busy I din even have time to call China! I brought back 2 kuas for sample, but they are the really old-fashioned types; 1 set in dragon and phoenix gold/silver embroidery and another set, beaded flowers. Too bad they are very small size, like our local S-M only

Will keep you posted when I receive mine. Keeping my fingers crossed that it will turn out ok.

Oddsize,
I think you might want to call up Susan of Jawn Happy.Ever.After. She told me she has quite a no. of well-endowed brides (cup D and above!) so she should be able to suggest something. Just go for a chit-chat session, no harm right? They are very nice and no obligations whatsoever! Don't let this take the fun out of your gown search; at least you get to try on gowns! I'm so big most boutiques did not even suggest I try theirs for fear I will tear the seams! Good luck!

Celine,
I booked my hotel banquet, then ceremony venue and lastly the gown. To me and my fiance, banquet more difficult as there are only a couple (usually) of hotels that meet (most of) your criteria; if a hotel is booked no way can they squeeze you in, but for a boutique, even if there are 2 brides on same wedding day it's ok because the gown must be out by photography date, which may not clash with others. This does not mean you should be like me and leave the shopping around until the last minute! Shop around early, but you can decide after the banquet is finalised. Here's my 2 cents' worth, hope they are helpful.

Well, so much for now

Hope to hear from you lovely ladies soon!

 

[durian]

Morning gals,

My ROM is less than 2 months away and I have trouble finding a dress that FITS me.

MY size is XL. most shops stock up to L only.

Anyone has some experience where to get a simple nice dress?

for shoes, anyone else with size 8 and above? My feet are really wideand fleshy, so cant fit in and look good in most sweet little dainty sandals. anyone can share with me what are the more comfortable/nice places to get these?

**thanks**

 

[blurydoey]

hi durian,
U can try holland v they have a lot of big sizes n heatwave at far east, they can custom made up to size 9...I also big feet mine is size 10 got my shoes at holland v.

 

[durian]

thanks blurydoey!! I will check these places out. It is really sian right, the average gals only has a size 5 or 6 feet. sighhh.

 

[lee]

Try Empire by Tras Street - beside Emanuel B, they have pretty dresses but expensive (about S$270 for a simple short dress). No harm asking if they can do to your size or not. Plus they have quite nice silver shoes. If you choose strappy ones, maybe size 8 is good enough for you.

Good luck!

 

[bombom]

hi durian
me big size so have been having difficulty finding gowns too. but recently found that celia loe at ngee ann city carries long and short dresses till size 14-16 depending on the cut...
you might wanna try there? the prices range from $150- $300 plus.
all the best for your rom yah?

 

[blurydoey]

durian,
ya lor,it is so demoralishing when u see those pretty shoes but we cant wear, but never mind..i think so long it is comfortable i think is the best.
gals,
rite now looking out for bridal shops n also at the same time at dinner...hope to find settle all these soon...been so stressed out...

 

[fifi]

hi pebbles/joy and all

I am back..hehe..all the while have been reading the postings but somehow do not feel like posting. not sure if you all still remember me or not.

have not been posting since a lot of thigns happened lately. now not even sure if the wedding plan can go ahead or not.
by the way, have any of you encountered any problem with yoru family/inlaw? my parents just met my bf but somehow do not like him due to his size. I just dont understand why. he is huge but he is really nice to me. beside i am quite a big size person too..

oh well...anyway, guess the only good news is that i have lost some weights..now everyone is commenting that i have slimmed down a bit..maybe it is due to tremendous amount of stress..luckily bf is very supportive.,,guess what..I finally can now buy clothing from G2000...never think that i'll ever fit into those..so you all can imagined how "big" I was
Keep in touch..

 

[joy2003]

Hi Fifi!

Of course, I remembered you! I haven't post in this thread for a while too...

Hey, are you feeling better now? Don't get too upset, okie. I am sure your parents will eventually give you their blessings about your bf. I believe they do need time to get used to a new person being included in your life. Maybe you could arrange for more gatherings or dinning opportunities for your bf to relate with your parents. As they get to know your bf better, they will be more comfortable with you being with them.

I do get my bf to meet up with my parents as often as we can. Although not always, but will involve my bf in birthday celebrations, etc. In addition, you may like to share more about your bf with your parents. Sharing does help.

It's a phase our parents need to go through. I am sure things will turn out well. Cheer up yah!

 

[chub]

Hi fifi,

So glad to have u back.

Miss u. Saw fifi posting in other thread, don't know whether it is u?

Please don't be sad. It is common to have in laws problems. I think your parents have your greatest interest at heart, that is why they are so gan cheong. I agree with what Joy2003 say, it is not easy for them to get use to someone new, so give them some time to adjust and the rest is up to you to do.

Guess you will have to start arranging more meet ups and buying things for your parents during occassions or anytime (even snacks or pastries and gifts) saying that it was from him and and all those 'men mian gong fu' to put him in their good book.

Wow, to slim til you are able to buy clothings form G2000. I guess that must have been a lot. Good work keep it up.

Hi Joy2003,

Seldom see your posting here too. But you are still pretty active in other thread. Have you confirm your gown design with JLC?

 

[piglet]

hi pple i also trying to lose weight for my wedding next year!

really wonder what sort of design is good for me?

anyone try the double blessing/shuang xi in IMM before?

 

[bride2b03]

Hi piglet,

Might want to try JWN. I'd my wdding gown MTM there...and i'm 'big' sidewayss...I had problem looking for a nice wedding gown, then a friend of mine suggested me to go down JWN.

JWN have many nice gowns indeed, that's why I signed up the package despite knowing I can't fit into any of their gowns. Anyway I'd mine MTM with the help of JWN designer and ppl there are very helpful.

Anyway they will let us try gowns, not to worry about whether it can zip all the way up or not.
Well, it's always good to go down and check it out yourself.

Good luck.

 

[piglet]

Hi bride2b03

yap..me going to heed your advice ..will be going there soon...

busy busy leh.

usually for the first time, do u sign the package ? and can i go with my buddies first instead of my FH

 

[pebbles]

Hi girls,
im finally back from my business trip, how's everyone here..???

Mudpie,
how are u??? have u found a job already or still enjoying life ah..???

fifi,
welcome back, i have not being making much postings here too, how r u feeling now??? hope u r feeling much better..

im sure will parents just need some time to adjust, like what joy2003 mention, just try and arrange for more outings with your parents and bf and give them more time to get used to your bf..

cheer up!!!

 

[bride2b03]

Piglet,

It's always better to bring along ur FH. First of all, he'll b the done to walk down the aisle with, and secondly he'll have better understanding on the products&services he'll be paying...ritee?? Last but not least, You safe time from having to go back maore than you needed also don't have to go through trying of gowns for too many times.

 

[joy2003]

Hi Chubb,

Haven't log on to the SB thread for a while already. Have been caught up with things, both personal and work.

Yes, I have just settled my gown designs with JLC about 2 weeks back.

Finally! It's a load off my mind.

How's your preparation?


Hi Pebbles!!

Great to have you back with us. How's your trip?


Hi Fifi,

How are you now? Haven't heard from you since your last posting. Is everything alright for you and your bf? Hope to hear from you soon. Take care!

 

[pebbles]

Hi joy2003,
my china trip ah, was terrible, my boss make me stay for an extra week and i felt sick when i was there cos the air there was just too polluted and come the third week, the temp drop ah then i didn't bring enough clothes for the cold weather, it's just generally a bad trip b'cos of my boss poor planning

 

[piglet]

Hi gals...

Hmm....i will be a rasa sentosa bride..not too sure if their gown is suitable?
also ,
i realy wanted to take pic in the water not with my WG of course? do u think i have to pay extra if i request OTR gown for photoshoot?

 

[bride2b03]

Hi piglet,

I had my ps in the water, don't have to pay extra because Jwn has gown specially for that kind of ocassion. I just have to let them know of my intention and my coordinator help me select/choose the gown during the gowns selection. All with no xtra cost.

 

[piglet]

Thanks bride2b03

have u had ur gown done? do u have any pic??

can i take a look.

I got flabby arms and i am quite plump leh.

 

[piglet]

Hi pple..
hows the wedding preparation.. lets keep this thread alive, i really like this thread, i have printed all the info and compiled it. going to the few boutiques that u gals recommended.

so dun leave me leh!

 

[piglet]

Anyone can advise me how to choose a wedding gown that will not make me look fat?

 

[chewie]

Piglet,

I would suggest going for a princess line WG, with short sleeves.

 

[chub]

Hi all,

How's everybody?

This thread had been exceptionally quiet nowadays.

Fifi,
Did the situation improved? Hope everything is fine on your side.

Joy2003,
You have confirm your gown design. How does it look ? When will be your photoshoot? Must be really excited?

Mudpie,
Have you found a job? Or you are still enjoying life? How's is your gown design coming along.

Piglet,

Warm welcome to you Sorry,nowadays we are not as active as usual.

Have you visited and confirmed on your bridal already. I would normally advise Gals like us to get MTM as we do not fall under the standard sizing category. So looking for a good designer to take care of all this is important. Work with the designer to come up something flattering.

Maybe, A boufant gown should do the trick of hiding our heavy bottom . Sleeves or off shoulders should do the trick of hiding our flabby arms. The rest will have to rely and depend on a very well made gowns to hide our flaws. However, all these may not work for eerybody as most of us have very adverse body type.

You can try going down to Jawn happy ever after to take a look and talk to the designers. They are very friendly and I think they can give you very good suggestion to hide your flaws base on your figure type. It is a place that make a bride feel special even big gals like us.

Hope I am of some help

 

[pebbles]

Hi chub,
Used to see u quite often in this thread but have never really spoke to u before, mind me asking which bridal did u sign up with???
Me supposed to organise an outing for this thread, anyone interested??? will be contacting Mudpie, she is still currently looking for a job and going well with her wedding prep..

Please let me know if u girls are interested in the outing!!! thanks!!

 

[chub]

Hi pebble,

Thanks for the update. Obviously I would be interested in the outing.

After visiting really a handful of Bridal Boutiques, I had settled with Jawn Happy ever after too.

Very happy with my choice actually.

Pebble,

How is your prep. Seems like all of us are so busy to log into this thread to chat.

 

[blurydoey]

hi gals, dunno u all still remeber me or not..
I already booked my bridal at focus, I didnt go down to jawn happy after to take a look...
hope I made the right choice lor..
nowadays I started to do skipping n situps to slim down...

 

[joy2003]

Hi Gals!

Nice to see this thread coming alive again!

Pebbles, you still in contact with mudpie? I haven't been keeping in contact with you gals for quite a while.. Yes, will be keep to go for the gatherings. But, Fridays are out for me. So how's your work and wedding preparation?

Blurydoey, yes, of course still remember you.

How's things been for you? Btw, where's focus?

Chub, I hope Fifi's situation will be fine. Haven't heard from her since then. Yes, confirmed my gown design. WG is a bustier with princess cut. As for EG, is empire cut. In fact, after my 1st appt, I didn't think much about it.. Haha..guess it's a load off my mind. Oh ya, I just bought my wedding shoes.

So, how's your preparation?

 

[pebbles]

Hi Chub,
I have not done much for my wedding prep yet except booking my bridal package cos my wedding will be in may 04 so there's still lots of time for me.

Hi joy2003,
yeah, i sms mudpie once a while just to say hi, work is terrible, will be starting my search for a new job, dun feel any job satifiaction staying in my current company..

To all big brides,
Please let me know which day would be a good day to meet up, joy2003 can't make it on a firday so how about making it on a wed...?????

 

[blurydoey]

hi joy2003,
I have booked my dinner n bridal already, been busy with my work for last mth cause my collegue went on leave..now better liao..focus is at IMM..my hubby n I was shopping n saw the shop.
pebbles,
u are looking for job ar...they still that bad to u ar...just ignore them n I think its coming to year end not many job opportunities.I think next year will be better.

 

[pebbles]

blurydoey,
yeah, now got new girl and she's worst ah, really showy and unfrenly, really can't stand my working place ah, hoping to switch job real soon..., hey when are we suppose to meet up with strawbarry ah???

 

[strawberry]

hiya,
me here, me here...

blurydoey,
so how's things? btw, u want to come to my wedding?

pebbles,
did u signed up with BZ har? hey, didn't know u looking for a job. actually, me too. but blurydoey is right, now yr end not much chances, strike from jan onwards, cos pple now waiting for bonus then leave, then we'll be able to have chances loh.

when are we meeting?

 

[pebbles]

hello strawberry,
finally see u ah, MIA ah, yeah me sign up with BZ that's why i see in the BZone thread what..

hey how's yr photoshoot ah, must share share when we meet ok..

yeah was asking blurydory when are we meeting, when can u make it???? i can't make it every tue and thur,

 

[strawberry]

hello pebbles,
not lah no mia...just that i cannot come in too often, must do it discreetly cos my company very strict.

ya will show the photos definately, but i hasn't collected from BZ yet, not ready. so if there's anything that u would like to ask regarding BZ, i can try to help you with that.

i can't meet on Fri. my schedule also quite tight now due to my preparations, so must faster fix a date

 

[blurydoey]

so how ar?three of us meet after work, so only mon,u gals want to meet next week?or after strawberry wedding...strawberry when is your wedding?this mth a lot of gatherings...
pebbles,
u are senior, u can tell her off.....nowadays hor , young girls very jialat one..

 

[strawberry]

blurydoey,
my wedding in dec lah. hmm..u didn't answer my qn leh, i asked if u wanted to come to my wedding. how abt u pebbles, u want to come too?

don't have to wait till my wedding then meet up lah. how about the week after next?
mon 18? next week, i everyday also got appt..cannot

hai yoh blurydoey,
we also young what..heheheh...i know what u mean lah..actually pebbles, correct loh, u are more senior, don't have to be affected by her. she should ne affected by you!

 

[blurydoey]

i mean those like 20years old those type, sometimes it get so frustrating one.kkekee but dun bother abt her lor...since she is new..u are older staff dun be affected lor..
your wedding in dec ar?aiyo I blur liao..when ar?
my co d&d is tentitive on 20dec.
I find a bit weird lei, cause i dun know any of your friends...

 

[pebbles]

so how ah, we meet up on the 18th ah, me got to confrim with u girls again ah cos normally have family dinner with my parents on mon..

will cehck then let u girls know..

wow, blurydory say until i so old ah, me where got senior...dun say that lah...we all same same..

Strawberry,
u inviting us to your wedding ah??? so set on Mon lah if say i can make it is it..

 

[strawberry]

blurydoey,
yah i know those younger than us gals..kekeke..no manners one..hhehehehe...so mean hor..
my big day on 14. didn't clash with your D&D, well i know you won't know my friends, but you & pebbles my friends mah, how can don't invite right?

i have church wedding also, ok let u choose, you're coming for both? or what??
u come with pebbles, then won't lonely already loh.

ok we meet on mon 18th if pebbles can make it. pebbles tell me more abt what job you're looking ok, we find together!!

 

[pebbles]

hi girls, sorry i didn't log on during the weekends, i can't meet up with u girls today ah...can set another day or not..

your big day is 14th of dec ah..???? will tell u more when we meet up lah..

 

[nofuss]

Hi joy2003,

found you here. You not been in the Mar 2003 brides thread.

I am on block leave so got time to explore all the threads. Sorry abt your grandma. Hope you are feeling better.

Hi gals,

hope to also join this thread since I am also in the big sized category.

cheers

nofuss

 

[blurydoey]

pebbles u blur blur ar?I thot u said meet on the 18th?
strawberry,
ok so got company I dun mind going lor..
so when are we meeting confirm on the 18 next mon rite?

 

[pebbles]

blurydoey,
hahaha....

yeah man, im seriously blur, i keep thinking the 18th is today...oh, then shouldn't be a problem lah..

Hi nofuss,
welcome to the big bride family..

 

[joy2003]

Hi Nufoss,

Nice to find you in this thread!

You are definitely welcome to this thread.

Yup, pardon me for not being so active lately in the SB forum. Just post a reply on March thread.

Wow..clearing your leave. That's nice.

Have you been exercising? I went back to gym last week and did aerobic class on New Body. Perhaps we can meet. I am planning to go for NB class next week. Want to come along? Give me a call, yah

 

[fatbride]

Hi blurydoey,
u got your shoe at holland v right? can i have the address?

 

[blurydoey]

address ar,
I dun really rememeber the exact address its at holland v shopping centre the cold storage building,its at the third floor, its not the floor that sells a lot of shoes one, its one floor up..the lady rather nice lor..not many shoe shop up there so rather easy to find, but she closes at around 7pm.
are u in need of the address if not, i check at home wheather I have her name card.

pebbles,
so on mon we meet up lor,

strawberry ,
how abt u ar?mon ok?you got photo can bring over let us see?rom or the photoshoot samples..
i try to bring out also..