thanks to everyone who responded, you all are very kind & helpful.
i had no idea cat sleeves will bring more attention to my arms. the BS suggested this when i mentioned i am very concerned about the arms portion then they mentioned one of their girls studied design & can make nice cat sleeves to attach to the gown etc.
how about those kimono type butterfly sleeves huh? i got think of that but reckon it must be funny in combination with a gown... *stresssssed*
they also suggest wear a shawl for EG but if i also wear a shawl for WG, will it very strange??
in addition, i also stressed about my ROM dress which will have to be OTR cos they do not have MTM for ROM dresses. *chiam*
my ROM is on 010609 and AD on 030609 so already less than 3 months. i already eat very little and exercise liao but think my metabolic rate very very low so no significant results. also went for 10 sessions of accupunture in jan but only lose 2kg. *saaaad*
worse of all, my arms are not only hugh but got muscles also. i worried if i lift some more weights, my arms will look incredible hulk leh.
anyway, can only wait till 30 march where we have our first trial fitting then can access the situation. i really scare cannot find OTR then have to do MTM cos my BS quote me 2 prices, one for OTR package, the other for MTM package, both on our invoice form. the difference is $800 leh.
anyway, once again, i am so very glad to have found this thread because i dont have any friends in my size so they wont feel my "pain"