Mira,
sorry to hear your woes, speak it out, its good for you.
I totally agreed with the girl's comments. You must build up the confidence in yourself & if you really want to compare, compare to yourself (before & after), not compare to other.
Everyone is different and unique!!
I also plus size (16/18),my brother in law is dating with a girl, she is pretty, well educated (pursuing her master now), tall, good taste in fashion,rich etc...i am so happy for him to find such a pretty girl. However, when me & my hubby went back to MIL house for dinner, and she is around, she will hide inside my brother in law room, never say hi or bye, never eat with us. If one day, she become my SIL, i also dont know what will happen!!
Most important thing is, i will just do whatever i need to do as a wife, daughter in law and SIL. Its always not easy to play so many roles, and i am sure you can do it if you true to yourself, follow your feeling.
At this stage, i think take care well of your body is more important than losing weight, so that u are in good condition to get pregnant & not affecting the baby development.
Have a good talk with your hubby, communication is super important in the relationship!
sorry to hear your woes, speak it out, its good for you.
I totally agreed with the girl's comments. You must build up the confidence in yourself & if you really want to compare, compare to yourself (before & after), not compare to other.
Everyone is different and unique!!
I also plus size (16/18),my brother in law is dating with a girl, she is pretty, well educated (pursuing her master now), tall, good taste in fashion,rich etc...i am so happy for him to find such a pretty girl. However, when me & my hubby went back to MIL house for dinner, and she is around, she will hide inside my brother in law room, never say hi or bye, never eat with us. If one day, she become my SIL, i also dont know what will happen!!
Most important thing is, i will just do whatever i need to do as a wife, daughter in law and SIL. Its always not easy to play so many roles, and i am sure you can do it if you true to yourself, follow your feeling.
At this stage, i think take care well of your body is more important than losing weight, so that u are in good condition to get pregnant & not affecting the baby development.
Have a good talk with your hubby, communication is super important in the relationship!