Hi all! My AD customary will be in December 2015 and my simple ROM at the office will be happening in December this year. Have settled the venue for the banquet. Now looking at bridal for pre-wedding shoot and AD..
I think the bridal part of the wedding is really the most difficult part and giving me such a headache.. Perhaps I'm just asking for it =\ Just gotta blame it on my own fussiness but I can't help it that I'm really particular about my AD gowns. Besides the fact that I must like the gowns I'm also very particular about the quality, the workmanship & that it has to be brand new and never been worn before by another bride.. My dilemma here is that if I take up an OTR package, will my gowns be guaranteed brand new and never been worn before by other brides? Can I trust the BS if they tell me the gown that I like is brand new?? So if I shouldn't trust what they say am I better off taking up their MTM package? Aside from the gowns I feel the MUA is also very much a concern. After all its my Big Day, I feel it's absolutely important that I can entrust it to my MUA to make me look pretty the way I want it. Signing up an all-in-one package with the BS also means that I risk having to deal with poor/bad after-sales service and experience after signing on the dotted line...and I'm worried sick just thinking about all these things.. Gosh I think I sound like a bridezilla already.
I'm not too concerned about the pre-wedding photos cos the album will just be chucked to the storeroom to collect dust after the wedding. If I want a nicer photoshoot I can jolly well find another opportunity to do it in future. What's important for me is the AD which I can't re-enact even if I want to.
Ladies, I need your advice. Do I seem ridiculous and over-reacting? Are my expectations way too high? Do I sound like I'm asking for the impossible here?
I don't know...all I know is I just want my money worth spent. Argh how now??