Yea, but since u guys alr booked ur hse, mayb u can suggest getting a joint ac to save regularly first. That's what we did before my bf proposed.

I suggested saving regularly for it to prepare for all the hse expenses but actually that will b where we will b paying for wedding frm cuz we don't have parents sponsorship..
Think most of us here are very kiasu, haha. Myself included. For us it's because of work commitments we can only choose specific months.. Out of these 2 months that we can take, we still have to choose from dates that the shifu gives.. So it only leaves us with abt less than a handful of dates to choose from. Hence we are more kiasu and decide to book early before all the dates we can have it is gone... Majority of the ppl will book ard 1 year in advance. But if u have specific dates or requirements or need to see the shifu then think advisable to start slightly more than a year at least. My cousin booked his 10mths before and didn't a mange to get his choice hotel cuz he was particular about the dates.
On the other hand, if u don't intend to consult a shifu and most weekends are fine with u I think 1 year is very safe. When I went to research in July, they still have weekend dates for most hotels that they are trying to clear. Some hotels offer extra perks for their wedding shows while trying to clear these dates.