Hi ber80 + lovexiaolongbao,
Another secret...i into dancing too...learned salsa b4...liked it a lot but my HTB not so confident... aniway, would plan e prog in such a way tat there would be some surprises.
I like ur white flowers/leaves/dark cloth setting. Contrasts always enhance e visual aspect.
As 4 music selection, think safer 2 opt 4 sentimental/melodious... don forget, we hav mature folks...(parents/ relatives etc) perhaps those ideas can b reserved 4 e Post wedding celeb when we thank our helpers. (",)
E min no. of tables MM has for us is 25. Max-30. Prob stick 2 25 tables lah. I agree w u (lxlb), don anihow invite invite... some guests qite impolitically correct 1 leh...remembered my bro invited his friends n they don turn up! W no reason... most importantly, no $$$. Ofi course, 4 special reasons we understand, but some can b qite jia lat n don offer a token sum (ee si ee si mah)
So,...best checked out e availability of e guests, oso how far 2 stretch e list... qite sure not inviting e entire work place pple 2 wedding. Hence need 2 b sensitive n b prayerful abt e guest list. Hope all things turn out ok.
Rite now, i in e midst of attending a marriage prep course/ MPC done by my HTB church. Hmmm... ani1 oso going thru MPC currently?
Ani interesting learning pts abt marriage?
Mayb can share a few simple pointers: (hope iz not 2 stuffy 2 those who r reading)
A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE ...
a. Complements, not compete (Man + Woman -->
We are equal)
b. A man is only complete when he has his wife.
Haha (found this really corny)
c. 1st 3 years of marriage a testing ground. In
fact, when both start to see each other's
flaws n b driven crazy...welcome 2 e
institution of marriage...e conflicts
(lifestyle/ habits etc)set the foundation for
a strong marriage. E cement 2 secure e
relationship is mutual tolerance n luurrrvvve.
2 end,
Lxbl, when u back in Spore n wan 2 look 4 kakiz, if u don mind, feel free 2 drop a line. Meanwhile enjoy e air in Shanghai. Nice 2 noe u here...
Ur ideal WG is lacey/off shoulder n mermaid cut? Hmmm.... great taste. Tink u noe wat material n cutting can bring out ur assets n conceal ur flaws.
One tink my galfrienz advise me is...be open in trying all sorts of gowns...don restrict 2 one. U may not like certain designs on pic, but if u wear it, u might hav a diff opinion... Jus b adventurous n try all designs.
Wow u oso do a PPT 4 ur ideal gown... so on!
At least now, i can fully conc on planning e details cos i really like 2 shake legs a lot...don like last minute stuff on myself n others.
Oki taz all. Im really happy 2 chat w u all.
In fact, i look forward 2 hear ur thots... guess e brides in this thread so far sound qite 'zai'(steady bong bi bi)
Bunnyhop