hi soudez,
if the chinese not eating pork, it wouldn't be a problem. don't worry lah, wedding mah, i am sure your malay friends will understand. we only have 2 malay friends and they are sitting with the chinese as well, and they told us they are perfectly fine as long as they are not the ones eating pork dishes.
hai... just go word from my mom, she suddenly wants to increase from 3 tables to 4.5 tables. very frustrating! ok, losing 1.5 tables more of ang bow money is part of the probem, but the bigger problem now is that my hotel ballroom cannot accomodate anymore tables, so we have to cut down our friends. =(
and the best buy... this ex-neighbour who had been very nice to me, and treating FH very well when he stayed with them for a few months decided not to give us ang bow money but planning to get us a fridge(coz they knew we were moving in dec). my dream fridge is over $3k, but if the family is giving me a $500 fridge i'm happy with it too! so she called my mom since she is sitting under 'her table', but guess what my mom told her? "aiyah, give them ang bow can already lah..." wait a minute, since when my mom helps me decide what gifts i want for my wedding?