Hey, Jingles, sorry to hear about that..
you should really ask someone, but since its ur maternal grand dad, dunno if your mum will be ok with answering ur questions.. u know, its like askin in preparation for his death lor, although it is the fact, but dunno how ur mum will take to it.. How about asking a close relative? Someone u trust and knows about this kind of stuff?
i think in olden times, they will hold the wedding within a short period, either within 3 months or 3 eyars.. but that was olden times. they didnt need to compete for dates and venues.. Its harder now.. so manybe this custom has chanegd with the times too..
keep us updated ok?
Pandalic: if u ask me, i think PG should get priorty. COs when u view memories of your wedding, pple usually see pics.. But of course, if ur VG insists on being the priority, the camera man can always use his zoom.. but i think VGs and PGs can work this out one lah right? cos i'm sure there were many weddings that have VG and PG.