(2006) Brides of year 2006

hmmm happy thoughts ppl..

anyway I just have a question for you guys. How to break news to mum and dad you going to get married?

MY dad n mum are expecting it but not sure when lah but how to tell them.. dont know if it is me but I find it hard to say.. is like leaving them for elsewhere and someone else.
 


Ling...subtly show them the ring ring lor...
or get ur FH to tell them lah...heheh...'officially' ask them for ur hand...hheh
Good leh...now u get some ideas...next time less headache for me :p
 
ling,
sure ur parents will be delighted to hear abt this gd news. We are not leaving them, infact daughters being married out also symbolise the parents haf finish their part and its time to pass it on to the husband to continue taking care of their daughters.

I just told my mum I'm planning my wedding and rom in 2006. ask her hw much table she needed. She was happy and keep throwing in many ideas. Then she say she finally liao le ge xing yuan. Wait till my sister get married too then she'll go njoy life liao...=)
 
wah little_ger.. my FH not so hmmm 'class' to offically ask my hand from my parents.

I mean for him to ask my own hand ald took him yonks liao! I think can totally forget him asking my pop and mom..

KS bride I am sure will be something like that lah just can tell mum but the thing is to officially tell them.. sigh... Anyway I was thinking get a firm date in 2006 before telling them lah. But I need the aggregate number of guests they are inviting. Which will totally amaze me I assume..I am sure mum will be happy but sad at the same time.. Whatever is the case.. I am parking myself in their home for the next 2 years at least.. so that buy me some time..
 
bugbear.. show them the ring! No lah I dont want to... later mum sure complain say my FH spend so much money on me yada yada.. get nagged for nothing!
 
dub,
not she gd lah, she just kaypoh...haha...and say if not enuff $, then had a dinner buffet at hotel lor..then i told her we can oni afford to give her abt 6 tables. $$ not enuff! So she say if she need more table, she pay herself.

Now i'm waiting for next yr see got any gd location of new flats and go apply my lovenest!

So now, have to pia all the way for $$...my job scope getting tougher and tougher, more midnight oil to burn liao....sianz....if not coz of $, I'll quit and get another relax job liao..hai...
 
ksbride, still not good ar? 6 tables only, if she need more she will paid herself. if my mum same as ur mum, i will be very happy liao. that time she wan 20 tables, and i told her i cant afford, she will said he is the one that fork out, y said no money
 
now i no need to worry about wat wedding dinner, where to have it and how many tables my mum wan or in laws wan. everything cancel liao and now can concentrate more on work and study. no need to worry all these
 
ksbride, my mum dun know the annulment thing. i doubt she will feel guilty, she will comment that u see, lucky u see through earlier, if customary already found out even worse. now not so bad, better break up earlier. told u not to rom earlier but u wont listen.
 
dub, juz wish u all e best. I believe u will find 1.

gals, u all so gd ah my bf juz said rom on my bday only. i tell my parents myself 1 and all my frenzs shocked when i break e news coz they find me still very young.
 
after my degree then find one that is much more better than current one. hope the next one turned out well. going for my operation in sept.
 
hi gers

as for me..i told my dad first...he got a shock manz...cos no proposal nothing....he was like saying me too young for marriage blar blar blar...but he nice...din tell mom...told him not to tell mom...cos telling her means telling the whole world manz...then all the relatives will start making their 'contributions' which i dun need ...so think maybe 5 mths b4 the actual day then tell mom...hehehe...very bad rite? sighz...now whenever mom not ard..dad will tell me the importance of being a good homemaker...la la la la...cos i dun do housework mah...next time also dun intend to do...gonna hire a domestic maid...those that come in twice a wk one..or 3 times a wk...me too busy..hahha..actually is too lazy lah...

hey dub
u serious? very wasted since the house reno until so nice liao...where yr house huh?
 
my house is at yew tee, my hubby did stop me or give in, but i really dun wan to be under pressure anymore. mum and hubby keep giving me pressure, i really had enough lor, i cant take it anymore. i really need to get out of this whole thing, is not avoiding but since is not happy then y wan to force it.
 
cindee, u so good, no need to do housework one. i have to do everything beco my mum wont do. the new flat i also have to cook and clean up everything on my own, beco dun intend to have maid, but now everything no need to do liao.
 
i think after 32 then i considered marriage again, my heart still cant settle down and not ready for marriage i think. i need a husband that support me and can deal with my mum and not one that keep quiet and when things happened, keep blaming me for not understanding
 
hi dub

32? how old are u now? if i am not wrong, u same age as me rite? 24? maybe u go away for holz and rethink? considering he gives in to u liao...hmm...if u were u i would even turn it ard and said it was cos of the pressure my mother give...considering she made u pay for so many things. oops...very evil hoh...

sorry ...still find it very wasted...now yr FH how? he can take it meh?

well...on the other side of the coin...u can save more money for yrself.
 
hey gers

it just dawn upon me that we are here for one another...when ling got her proposal we all so happy...when dub met with upsetting matters..we advise and feel for her..we advise on BS and venues...so tt we gers get the best deal and dun get cheated...so heartwarming...hmmm or is it only me too sensitive? haha...anyway thanks gers...
 
dub..
glad that u made the decision and stick thru it..
at least u r very sure of wat u wan..
and hope u will find someone whom u can spend the rest of ur life with..
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cindee..
tink dub is ard 27/28.. if i'm not wrong..
yup agree.. we are all here to share the joys and woes of all prospective brides!
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hey dub

if u made the decision already, then let it be...guess the most important thing we all wan is to be happy

huh? u 27/28? oops...me so small...sorry...ow i feel like a small fly...hahhaa
 
hi gals.... i m back from phuket
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sunburnt all over...i shall not attempt to tan myself again ! i only get burnt. shall stick to my sicky pale 'look'.

i read thru the previous entries and was so surprised that things just changed so quickly.... esp for dubdub...in a few days. hmm, since u decided dubdub, then shall not try to change ur mind. let u sknow if things take a turn for the better.

ling, i m soo happie for u. i was very touched when i read ur posting too. ur fh is v sweet. enjoy the few weeks 2gether before he goes abroad.

my bf tried to do something romantic b4 for me on our first v dae. he bought a lot of luminous sticks and wanted to arrange them into a big heart shape on our hostel rooftop. but hor...that uncle who sold him the sticks must had cheated him....most sticks cannot work (i.e not luminous) so in the end only a few got lights.... cant form a heart. so he breaks the sticks and pour the luminous liquid onto tissue papers and arrange the tissues into a tiny heart shape. hahahaha..... it looks very very pathetic and ugly... but i was so touched when i saw him frantically dipping the tissues into the liquid and arranging them hahaha.... although not romantic but so funny n nice to see him make a fool out of himself for me.
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i wont take up the GHA package yet, like u ling, no preparations until he propose heheh
 
hey yami!!

u r back!!!!!
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ehhehe so how was it???? wow! sunburnt! tat means no rain??? gdgd!! hopefully it will be bright and sunny in October too!!!!
which islands did u managed to go?????
and roughly hw much per day trip???

heeeeeee i can't wait!!!!
can't wait for my break to Phuket.. sigh.. still have Sept before October.... gosh..
 
racherlle n cindee, u all so gd cn go phuket. me kan even go m'sia haiz.....

racherlle, jia you for ur 3q budget i done that b4 it really gg 2 kill me.
 
nicnic, i stop my job hunting liao, now not the same as last time, FH not ard anymore,so expenses increased a lot. so will stay put
 
FH also comment right, i a bit weird, never wan a bb and he likes it so much. no matter how good and give in how much, i also wont accept back. i dun wan him to under pressure anymore, left me mabbe is the best choice
 
hi morning gals...

ok my trip was SGD400 (part of it was the expensive fuel tax that was = 63 bucks) i travelled with newly tour (at Pearl centre) it could had been 50 bucks cheaper if i opt for thai airways, but we couldnt coordinate timing/day offs so we went for the more ex silkair instead.

the trip includes a half day city tour and a full day phiphi island tour. two dinners and one lunch included. all the meals were yummy !
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i would say the package is quite a gd deal...

island wise i onli went to phiphi, the next day i went for jungle trek & elephant ride instead. the rest of teh time i idling along patong beach.
i stayed at a 'simple' lodge ... patong beach lodge. just a basic lodging-nothing to rave abt, but the location is good.

went to eat a lot of thai n seafood.... the lobsters baked in cheese were v v yummy. and of course the spicy tom yam soup.

bikinis are cheap there.... i bought two at onli SGD 8 each. one of which i tried on b4 at a shop at far east (it cost 40 plus there....if i didnt remember wrongly)

massage are the best.... i went for massage everyday. cost onli like 8 to 10 bucks per hour. went for manicure n pedicure too. (abt 12 bucks) but the manicure n pedicure standards not as gd as spore. guess cant compare apples n oranges.
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i m already starting to miss the place hahaha....
 
hi girls..

Dub, hmmm my mum not an advocate for spending too much money. She is very cash sensitive one so I dont think she be too thrilled if she realized FH spend so much on me. I guess different folks different strokes.

Bugbear, my mum dotes on everyone actually. haha.. not just FH.. think all my frds come my house also feel doted on because she fuss about you and cook up a storm and invite our frds just for meals.. weird huh!

Yami.. me yesterday sign up with GHA liao.. finally can have the receipt to officate my deferment for the ROM cert with HDB. If FH propose liao and you wanna go see see look look tell me and bei huh.. so we go kpo together! heee..Anyway yami your first V day so romantic ald! me huh.. we basically dont celebrate V day.. because me a refusal of commercialization.. hehe contradict myself one lah.. I still celebrate Christmas though.. ha! Anyway just having a case of sour grapes...*snigger*

Phuket is amazing right.. did you go to the nearby island? Phiphi or such? .. think was talking abt this with you in the other thread of couple of weeks ago right!
 


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