(2006) Brides of year 2006


If this is really how you feel I guess is only fair if you do it fast and not drag him along. But think carefully lah since I mean you are 28 to be more concern abt pain thus putting away the childbirth thing.

If you dont want to have kids due to a belief I guess it is okay but to put it off due to pain. I think is ridiculous. I mean my treshold of pain is like the size of Singapore in the world map. However I guess some stuff just take precedents on superficial things.
 
kids all the while he wan it but for me i really dun wan. my parents and in laws, none of them wan to take care and no one rush us to have too. is not the pain that i afraid, is just that i never have intercourse with him b4. and i dun have the drive
 
my gdness...
dub ah..
quarreling is so common..
i mean for such matters there will definitely be arguments... dun dare to imagine next time hw many times i would quarrel w my bf regarding abt our home.. but it's like tat wat...
couples shld give and take and also listen to each other's comments as both of us are brought up different and hence different tinking.. are u expecting that ur marriage would be like no quarrels no misunderstandings? gosh!!!
 
i never expect no quarrels but in the first place we decide not to have kids and now he keep mention it again and again. where is the promise that we had before rom
 
he keep saying his friends and colleagues got bb and he can feel that having a baby bring warm to the family. but in the first place already decide not to have and now he change his mind
 
dubdub ha,
there are bound to be quarrels/unhappiness. Marriage is not smooth-sailing one. it is not between u and ur hb. marriage involves both parents. u will regret ur decision on not wanting kids. it happened to my friend. she discovered that she was infertile when she finally decided to have baby.
 
Probably he have the wrong idea when you mentioned you quit the job and ferry him and kids and be the housewife. I mean it totally mislead us so what to say your hubby?

Anyway regarding certain stuff regarding intercourse and 'drive' I think you can tackle this later but I think is to look beyond this whole issue and see if you can change your lifestyle and live with him.

Anyway I dont want to broach on this do what you think is good for yourself. Do what you want and not what others want...
 
dub..
tot u had experienced a bad relationship before..
so would definitely appreciate this relationship more.. hmmm but from wat i've seen.. seems like u treat this like a game...
 
he always keep talking about kids and baby, but the point is i dun wan any. before rom, he already agreed to this, but now he seem to regret and keep trying to persuade me
 
dub tink we will leave tat for u to decide..
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littleger..
dun tink i can make it for the outing too..
 
Hi girls..

me okay for september tentatively.. Got school assignment but I guess we still need to have fun...

LEt me know when... wanna do it on what? weekend?
 
hi gals...

haven't been coming into tis forum n seems like lots of things haf been happening...

outing in sep is okay wif me except 8 sep i tink... hmmm...

ling... many congrats!! i noe exactly how u feel cuz when my bf proposed to me... i cried too hee hee n now whenever i see his ring on my finger i feel very close to him...

dub, i hope u can reconsider ur decision... marriage is a long-term commitment n if it's only cuz e both of u cannot come to a compromise regarding kids then i tink dats a silly reason to break-up... nobody ever said it was going be a bed of roses after u r married... tiffs n quarrels r acceptable (esp during pre-marriage stages).

even as i plan for our ROM now... i'm oredi experiencing lots of disagreements wif him but tis is part n parcel of life...
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when i plan for rom, he never quarrel with me, but now after rom, everything he also wan to quarrel with me. is not only kids problem, a lot of other things too that make us consider to break up
 
everything change after rom, last time so loving, but now no longer. for some small things, he will quarrel with me and blame me for spending
 
Hi ladies, for the outing I'm fine with anytime except if it is a weekend, the first week of Sept and the last 2 weeks of Oct, I will be held up and for weekday any day is fine with me.....
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Dubdub, i hope everything will turn outs well for u
 
hi dub

sorry to hear abt what happened. guess it is really not easy...i was also like u...dun wan kids cos too $$...i wan to still live comfortably...with kids a lot of things cannot have...but i tried to see where my bf is coming from. To them, it makes them a full man. dun get me wrong, i am not defending yr bf and not understanding where you are coming from. it was when i saw how happy my guy fren was when his wife got pregnant. he told us that at last he felt like a man. then it dawned upon me that man is just like this...i love my bf so i am willing to compromise...but i made it diff for him lah...told him his monthly pay must be at least $8000 -$10k than talk about babies...to him not difficult cos he can climb up the ladder quite fast...so i one shot ask for the HOD pay...hehe...

in short, try to talk to him and show him that u understand where he is coming from...that usually soften their hearts... they wan to be appreciated for the things and good intentions too...after that easier for them to listen to you and give in...hehe...i learnt it and it works. dun just break the love so fast.
 
hiya Ling~ read abt your hubby romantic proposal
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wah... so sweet, must ask mine to read
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hehe think most of us fooled by our FH huh? looks like block but can actually plan alot..

Ching, hope you're getting better
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will contact u once i've got any updates
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meanwhile, do take care~

to the rest of the ladies~ stay pretty!! let's look forward to our big day!!!
 
Ladies...anyone have any idea what is the latest style for WG & EG? Are low-back gowns out?

What about materials? Any good materials to suggest?
 
Blur.. look forward to our big day.. better not.. otherwise neck too long liao.. heh heh...

dub, the one with the bow? I thought you say you wanted to keep the gown since once in a lifetime thingy?
 
back back back,
I'm back to my main office again..kinda relax today. No need go client site.

dub,
U have already decided??? No intention of thinking over again?

nicnic,
start a topic? Hmmm...y dun u start one and I shall continue..hee =)
 
ks bride, i dun wan to force love, since it not meant to be mine, just let it go. I dun wan to be like last time, keep holding on and hope things will turned out well. in the end wasted my time and effort and everything is in vain
 
dub,
then how abt ur newly renovated house? This is the 2nd time u had applied a HDB flat..

Really find it a waste to let go of this relationship especially hearing all abt ur love life btw u and ur hubby.

And few mths back when we just started chatting, we were still happy discussing how to lose weight, just to look nice on our actual day.

*sign*, so sad to hear u are now preparing for annulment instead of wedding now..
 
after renovated, then we will sell back to hdb. yup, this is the 2nd time i applied for hdb flat, so in future either buy resale or condo liao. actually i not sad about annulment, beco i never expect this relationship to last long either.
 
ur house reno till so nice then sell back. The next owner juan dao ah!

dub,
Look on the bright side. Who knows things will turn better in the next few days...
 
eerr...renovate then sell back to HDb can fetch higher price meh?

Since u don want it already, then why not just leave it as it is? just forgo the deposit of contractors lor.
 


bugbear, we already paid all for the contractor, so they will completed everything. is not forgo the deposit only, beco is will be ready end of this month and everything almost done up liao. no way to leave it as it is
 
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