(2006) Brides of year 2006

yup nic.. RMIT from SIM.. oh okie.. so u r 1 year younger than me! hehe ya but CFA is very tough rite? i heard.. hehe

oohh okie..littleger where u planning to take ur masters from???
 


ohhh no worries lar.. littleger..
coz i still find that if i were to complete my Masters in 2007.. when i'm 27.. still like too young leh... tink 30 would be a better age..
coz hard to get high pay with our qualifications and not much experience...
 
yap racher, wat i heard oso n e exam only once in a yr if i flunged then i gotta wait for another to retake so really gotta go all e way.
 
littleger ah..
if u can afford.. u can go to Australia and get ur masters.. only 1 year.. my fren getting his in Monash University.. 1 year.. coming back soon..
and he's only 1 year older than me.. 25..
 
yup nic..
u have to put ur heart into it..
coz CFA is definitely going to be tough!
but once u get it ah.. then ka-ching!! u can hear the cash register coming in! haha :P
 
oh masters from MDIS ah?
hmmm i've not checked up theirs yet..
coz i always tink that SIM is better.. hehe my personal preference.. up to u
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dubdub...wot happened? i tot u were very happy with ur hubby? so loving leh...
then now u say he is not the one?

u already ROMed liao leh...
 
dubdub,
dun get too emotional and do something that you'll regret forever.

Just have a gd talk with ur hubby if its regrading the planning of wedding thing. Sure things will work out fine eventually
 
is not beco of my mum, i feel that our thinking is not the same, he wan kids after 2 yrs of marriage, but kids never came across my mind before. pple's hubby is so nice and good, but mine really cant meet my requirements now.
 
dubdub wat happen? r u ok? i hope is not becos of your friend influence..... i tot everything is ok and u r very happy with your fh.... oh no i hope u r ok...
 
but having kid when is not something tat cant be worked out mah my FH said tat he wan 2 kids at least and he is thinking to have it 2 yrs after our wedding too... For me i so scare to have kid troublesome and painful but thinking and weighting the cons and pros i still feel tat it is worth it to have a living thing created by 2 persons in love rite
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dub, guys thinking is different once they settled dwn they wld 1 2 haf kids. u juz tell him u r nt ready for new life. Problem cn b resolved 1
 
i never wan to have kids but i think my hubby not willing to accept. he keep saying wan kids after customary 2 yrs but i very career minded and i dun wan any lor. recently beco of flat we also keep quarrelling
 
yaa dub,
moreover, ur house had just renovated and all furnitures are almost done up! You are going to move into ur dreamhouse soon...

And your wedding is almost all girls dream but untouchable.

From what u posted all the while, ur hubby really dotes on u alot and very understandable.

Sure things will work out fine. Just sit down and had a gd talk with him. It really needs alot of commitment to live with a person for ur whole life. san si er hou xing!
 
dub, same as u me n my bf always quarrelled bt one haf to gif e other gotta take. Maybe recently u 2 stressed up with e things ard u tat y try to cool dwn n think.
 
Hmm...I love kids. My hubby love too. 2 of my sec friends same age as me, now already mother of 2!!....and I always hope to be a young mother. Hence, I'm different from u gals, I intend have a baby once I get married...hehehe...
My hubby wanted 4! But I told him 2 is enuff! And he willing to compromise. Phew...
 
yup, i cant endure already. mabbe i really not suitable to get married, i cant endure of losing my freedom. i know he dotes me a lot, but i cant bring myself to fork out anymore love for him. i more reserved now, dun wan to get hurt again
 
ya lor dubdub, i really feel tat your fh really dote on you and he really pampered you mah.... try to talk to him on the kid issue things will change when ppl get married...... furthermore it is very usual couple quarrel during the planning of their wedding.... my colleagues and friends also quarrel alot with their partner during this stage but ure can get over one....

U cool down and really think properly ya......
 
he wan 2 kids but for me, i dun wan any. i told him before, if he wan kids, then go and find another woman to bear for him
 
dubdub,
i strongly advise u to go for consuling first or maybe attend marriage preparation course. kids will make the relationship stronger. i told my fiance that i will only try for baby after i completed my studies in 2006, i oso told him i only wan two babies.
 
he wan 2 kids but for me, i dun wan any. i told him before, if he wan kids, then go and find another woman to bear for him
 
frankly speaking i dun wan to drag this relationship anymore. now break up rather than in future both parties also suffered
 
ya dub..
tot u always wanted to get married?
then hw come now like tat?
hmmmm as for the kids problem..
tink u 2 can solve it out rite?
juz becoz of tat then dissolve the marriage.. it's a bit too wasted rite???
dun u feel anyting for him???
poor guy...
 
before marriage everything is okie, but now beco of small things and kids, we keep quarrelled and quarrelled. then said that i dun understand him now compared to last time
 
dubdub.. I thought you mentioned before that you will be giving up your job to be a housewife and ferry the kids and hubby to work after your AD...Thus I thought you are prepared for kids liao.. and that is the main clause of worries for you if your hubby work alone and not enough money to pay off loan much faster as you would want it?

What happen?

Anyway think carefully lah.. not a game. Regarding the childbirth pain.. they have things like epidural now. Not 100% pain free but at least 60%..
 
dubdub..u serious abt not having kids?
I tot the last time u posted in the forum, telling us that u want to by a car so that u can send ur hubby to work, send kids to school, then send urself to work?

Hhmm...contradicting? I getting blur liao leh.
 


i wan to get married but not having kids, but he keep mention it again and again. i feel that i dun deserved to have him, and keep quarrel also not good, might as well dissolve this marriage faster. i dun wan to burden him too
 
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