hi joanna,
wow so serious ah, bcos of the traditional issue, create unhappiness ah...
for both of us, we are paying for our own wedding dinner, so we have the say and lucky my MIL is quite understanding, she did mention to say how many table my dad wants, i just told her not to worry, cos since we paying the dinner, we are not going to take any from my husband. just see our wedding list and arrange. keekee