(2005) Brides of year 2005


hi beachygal.. long time no c u...

anna,had rice again?? i have fish soup.. yum yum..

Karen, how's ur package in hyatt??
 
jelly ~ tot you going next weekends? Change of plan huh?
Yup I might get one of the products...let me take a look and let you know okie?
 
anna..
2.4 n 2.5 both only 50+ to 60%
not good but who cares,, hehe.. i just want to pass . haha..

3.4 got alot of strategies study, erm.. internet biz, use of IT in biz.. basically IT usuage.. but not the raw facts for IT.. for of implementing it.. rather logical..

yah.. i like desserts too.. high tea loh..
i love to eat cakes, pastries..
 
karen
oh you and fh wk in same company?
hmm.. so wat was for lunch tdy?

touraco
choc buffet ah? v sinful. i am not a choc person except for white choc so i think bo hua. i like to go for a buffet with all kinds of cheesecake, tiramisu, fruits, jelly, icecream, cakes, nyonya kueh, thai cakes and traditional desserts such as ice kachang, chin chow, chendol. dunno where got..
 
hi blur..
long time no tok too!!

anna.. sama sama.. like this kinda buffet too. but very sinful as well.. the amount of butter and cheese and stuff
 
blur
ya me had rice again. and tdy smilez also had rice. i also like fish soup. when i dun ta pao i will take fish soup sometimes.

beachygal
i think i might still give 3.4 a miss cos i think my level2 foundation for tt v weak. might take audit or tax instead.. cos less calculation practice.. but must see how bad my tax turns out. me self study just started last wk... so much to memorise.. dying. and some nites v sian...

actually i am also not sure how impt the results are. the website rite - only shows if you pass or fail, no results one le.. i am a conversion student. dun think you are rite?

gd le.. we shld look for a place and then organise a dessrt gathering. hahaha.
 
Hi touraco,
Ya lor...unless he go reservist and overseas.

Hi blur,
I don't have soft copy to send you...sorry. my package is for weekdays ($708 nett), the ballroom I wanted only requires 25 tables to book.
 
<font color="0000ff">my dears..i getting off the board now....
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anna..
3.4 is very theoritical.. good mah.. then can memorised..
tax and audit think dun haf much calculations..
passing rate is very low i heard for these 2
 
anna &amp; fates,
wrong!!! we not working in same company...
I had noodles. food around my place here is lousy..eat until sian already.. not much choices.
 
karen, 708nett?? hmm. then it's quite quite reasonable. wat abt wkend package?

beachygal, how's everything? i m still waiting for upcoming projects on hsing in the north..

anna, i must start on diet lah.. i went to weight myself last nite n realise tt i put on 2 kgs!!! which make me so low moral. Better start to exercise now..
 
beachygal

i also wan a buffet dessert outings.. yummy.
scarely organise, no one want to go cos too fat liao.. hahha.

i finish my tax paper then see i pass or not then i tell you if i continue with tax. next sem i am planning self study for the performance one and only attend the 2.5 with sami.

btw:are you a conversion student?
 
Hi ladies...juz to pop in to say hello. Been very busy till now. Will be back to my training in a short while. How's everyone? So sad......Fri cancel.
 
Hi, any good and cheap facial salons in Jurong East? I intended to change my current one.

I think I better bring fwd my ps date too. BS needs 3 months to process the albums.
 
anna~ i think hyatt has a dessert buffet if i'm not mistaken... *think* only... might be wrong.

marriot used to have it, am not sure whether they still do.
 
Hi blur,
Weekend big diff in price, Fri and Sun about $868 nett and Sat $888. that's why I chose weekday.

Hi anna,
i'm doing research work in lab. working near the cluster of biology research labs lor.
 
Karen, ohh. i c.. cos that time i rem seeing it to be 868.. so ur AD falls on which wkday??

stupy, how's everything? been busying eh?
 
hi gals,
bz whole morning.. finally got a chance to come in..

jelly, tks for yr sms. i'll go thru the list &amp; let u know wat i need u to help me buy. xie xie ni!
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jelly,
so when are u all going ZWD, I see some changes on the dates.

har, so bad. Gathering cancelled!
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Hi to the new girls *wave*


me ultra busy, and then OT 2 days again, then my DYM come... garrrr...
 
A very sad piece.. share wif u gals

Tonight, it was a nice evening spent with classmate. We
called it a day with a 2155pm movie titled "Finding Nemo". A good
show indeed.I hop on to a taxi. And started to chat with the cabby. Nice
chat but our conversation turns heavy...

He ask:"Are u married, lady?" I replied
"Yes" He continue "Does you hubby
loves you and always with u in times of trouble??" I
replied carefully :"
Y r u asking?"

He continued his story in a deep tone and i can feel his
sorrow and guilt. He wanted me to spread his story to remind all husbands,
boyfriends and men to love your love ones especially wife...

In january 03, he lost his wife to cancer. He regretted not
standing by with his wife during her struggle with cancer. Most of his
time he spent driving around as he is a cabby... but with the fact that he
is unfaithful to his wife too. He went to prositution for sex. He even has
a close girlfriend.

He just love to hang out and refused to go home. He did not
bother about his sick wife nor bother to ask how is she when she looks
frail and pale nor bother to find out from doctor how is her treatment
going. He did not even bother to accompany her to the hospital for treatment
despite the fact that she is in pain and fear from chemo. He literately
leave her alone battling with her illness.

He did not bother at all to know, always giving excuses like
busy with business (a cab business)... business needs him to run about
and even demand his sick wife to understand. At times the sick wife
tried to strike a conversation, he will brush off. For some times he thought
that there is no love between them. (He was wrong. He love her very much
and needed her.)

Then came a day when his wife is dying, then he realised
that his wife had long given up hope by giving up treatment. He can't help but
scolding his wife stupid at her death bed. He was in tears for a first
time.

He never able to forget his wife last words :"Dear, i
have been lonely all this while. I long for your company but you never there. You
lied to me that you will stand by me to help me pull through this
crisis...you never there for me.... Still I love you and thanks for being my
hubby..." He added...It is at the moment before her last breathe, he
burst into tears and whisper into her ears " I love you... I am
sorry..."

But all is too late... she is gone... forever.

Thereafter his life has changed... till now he feel that he
had let his wife down and living in guilt. He regretted. Only now he
realised he is a coward... a coward who refused to face his wife sickness as
fact nor accept the truth of his marriage vow ..."be with her
thru health and illness till death do us part". He simply just want to
find an easy and selfish way out by escaping.

At this moment i can feel his manly tone shaken, trying hard
to fight back his tears. I was at a loss of words. I told myself to
console him but no words came out. I feel sorry for him but somehow deep in my
heart, i do agree that he is a coward and he should feel guilty. I can
understand and feel the loneliness and the pain the wife must have been
putting up. SHe must be in great despair that she make the decision to stop
treatment; an indirect act to slow suicide. I am sure if the husband is
there for her during her treatment process, giving her all the
encouragement phyically, emotionally and mentally, she would have lived.

Well i did not probe further if they had kids or how long
has she had her cancer or when she stop her treatment and what type of
cancer? I see no reasons at all to know.

At last I am home after a 25 mins ride. I alighted with a
heavy heart after greeting him goodbye and accepting his advise to
"treasure your love ones and remember the marriage vow."

I pondered again. Must we always learned how to treasure our
loved ones only when we lost them?? Why are we always repeating
mistakes when it is a clear mistake happened on TV and in real life? Are we people
so stubborn that GOD had to punish us and make us learn thru the hardest
way (losing our loved ones)??

Now i know why my colleague (receptionist) insisted her
husband to say "I love you" once in the morning (when woke up) and once
in the night (when about to sleep). Her reason is "We don't know what life
had ahead of us. Some people just died in their sleep without even to know or
hear from their spouse such words. How pathetic??"

I think she has a point.

So friends, please tell your love ones how much they are
loved by u, shower them with love by words and gestures. Do it for LOVE.
And live a life without regrets.

Husband, love your wife; Wife, commit to your husband.
Husband/Wife of a patient, stand by he/her and help he/her to build hope.Never
under-estimate such forces. Understand their pain though you
can never feel their pain. Your pressence is always a reward for the
patient to fight on and stay alive. Bring them hope and let them keep
their faith thru you.

May all of us understand the meaning of life - and a
meaningful life is come from the joy of sharing with family and friends and
sometimes even strangers.
 


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