gals: i prefer friday dinner or sat for the gathering.
Gan/Zoeanne: Anmum is with folate. According to my gynae, there's no need to drink milk powder just to get calcium. Any normal fresh milk will do. Else soy bean milk is good as well.
Note: I haven't gained much weight though I'm taking Anmum at night. I'm drinking fresh milk in the morning, and Anmum at nite. Cost-wise, milk powder is more cost effective. 1L fresh milk only can last 4 cups. But it's up to individual preference, some find milk powder too sweet. have to beware of gestational diabetes which may occur during pregnancy.
jelly: hmm for your situation, a good chat is essential. Try to strike a balance between frens and family. Am sure if u had an active schedule outside, u will try to make time for him, just let your hubby know that u will appreciate his efforts to make time for u as well.