ting,
yup, was tough.
my paternal grandma was healthy for abt 2 years so she still does the cooking for us.
but after that she was down with stroke, so cant cook for us, then all of us still schooling, so employed maid to take care of my grandma and also does the housework.
so disciplinary of my sister is on me especially my youngest sister. my father is those very traditional kind, so he just give me monthly allowance to take care of my sisters school allowance and also the marketing.
anything to do with my sister, she will ask me where they go or why they not back or if they are out of hand, scold me for not disciplining them well etc... not easy. when me and my 2nd sis in sec, we work part time to earn money to buy our own books and also i paid for my sis expenses when the money my father gave is not enuf. even my youngest sis poly fee also used my cpf to deduct. cos my father also not earning alot.
gong teck, is a praying ceremony for the decease after few years. can do it every year if you got the money also.
jenn,
oh dear, what happen to J, caught virus from school?
ya, i think is the long journey. but actually if inez dun eat or eat meals then got enuf time to digest, she will not vomit de.
both time also after meals then she vomit.
i also got a lot of plastic bag, but inez din give me any warning, she just cry and call me, next moment throw out leow.
the 2nd time, we told her, if she want to vomit must tell us, so she knows already, then tell us she wanna vomit already, so this time into the plastic.
thanks for the rate on gong teck.
will ask ard and ask my aunty to recommend.