Queenie> Yah my family going in june again, I jus went in Jan, wanna save to go somewhere else after rom. No pt I go again so soon. Couldn't agree more, its for life. Not buy pets or wat, if cant take care can put for adoption if really bo bian. I dowan my kids to suffer with me n I also dowan to slog cos of my kids so soon.I finally can accept that I m getting married, I dun tink I can accept being a mum so soon lei. No turning back one, can't regret oso. My Fh's cousin somemore tell me if give birth early, easier for us to play with them etc, generation gap not so big. I tell him honestly, he ownself have kids so young oso no time play with his kids mah. Isn't it the same?Parents will be parents wat, no matter wat still got gap one. They all like scared we dowan kids liddat, so weird....ha!
Well, no matter wat, I wld want to stablise ourselves 1st ensure kids can have a comfortable life b4 planning for kids. I have frens who tink can enjoy life earlier if have kids earlier but its only if the kids are capable enuff mah rite.
Nites Tea! Bon voyage!