Soisuka,
The pursue of qualities or other qualities in men is the start of the pursue for perfection. It's as immature to simply ask:
"Is he perfect?"
You can't answer yes since no one is. Even those answers you have a 'yes' for... such as can he make you feel safe emotionally and physically... is it truly yes forever?
What I am trying to say is pretty researched, women are not made smart hence reproduction is possible. Given the concerns, WHEN can you tell yourself it's a definite yes for all the concerns? Impossible.
The way you date, the way you think are all wrong. If you don't like the man, you are still seeing him; if you don't like that man but he has all the qualities, in such way, do you think you will still date and marry?
So it's simply, are you attracted or thrilled?
On the other hand, are you sure one fine day you are old and ugly he won't slap you and "Why don't you die"?
Ting Yi,
There is no need to pity your ex-boss' stupid wife. I can't even pity Jack Neo's Irene Kang. Look around the forum, these are the mentality and attitude of women when it comes to men. They are basically gambling, and how to pity a gambler who makes a loss?
But it's quite true I'd appreciate a woman with some brains myself... But man with self-esteem usually prefer presentable partners given the choice. BUT... fate also plays a role that you meet someone you feel strongly for, and she is not pretty.
It's very simple... look at the hookers, the prettier and younger they are, the higher the price. I have NEVER heard of the older the uglier the higher the price.
If you ladies even realise something in this mechanism... It'd explain why those handsome men stay with their ugly wives... That's because handsome men have better immunity to babes than ugly ones.
The ugly men, given their low esteem and the need for sex, hunt those with less appeal while hunger for the beautiful ones never dies but grow stronger. So once they have money or have a chance, they usually stray. See?
It's like a poor man given the chance to snatch a bar of gold, they usually would.
On the contrary, those handsome men usually target women whom they feel for, so if it happens to be an average girl, the feeling is a bond.
But of course, not all handsome men are good lah... It all boils down to how a man sees relationship and how a woman react. Hence the One.
Still a man can have an eternal crush with you, but you may not choose to love him but marry someone else.
The pursue of qualities or other qualities in men is the start of the pursue for perfection. It's as immature to simply ask:
"Is he perfect?"
You can't answer yes since no one is. Even those answers you have a 'yes' for... such as can he make you feel safe emotionally and physically... is it truly yes forever?
What I am trying to say is pretty researched, women are not made smart hence reproduction is possible. Given the concerns, WHEN can you tell yourself it's a definite yes for all the concerns? Impossible.
The way you date, the way you think are all wrong. If you don't like the man, you are still seeing him; if you don't like that man but he has all the qualities, in such way, do you think you will still date and marry?
So it's simply, are you attracted or thrilled?
On the other hand, are you sure one fine day you are old and ugly he won't slap you and "Why don't you die"?
Ting Yi,
There is no need to pity your ex-boss' stupid wife. I can't even pity Jack Neo's Irene Kang. Look around the forum, these are the mentality and attitude of women when it comes to men. They are basically gambling, and how to pity a gambler who makes a loss?
But it's quite true I'd appreciate a woman with some brains myself... But man with self-esteem usually prefer presentable partners given the choice. BUT... fate also plays a role that you meet someone you feel strongly for, and she is not pretty.
It's very simple... look at the hookers, the prettier and younger they are, the higher the price. I have NEVER heard of the older the uglier the higher the price.
If you ladies even realise something in this mechanism... It'd explain why those handsome men stay with their ugly wives... That's because handsome men have better immunity to babes than ugly ones.
The ugly men, given their low esteem and the need for sex, hunt those with less appeal while hunger for the beautiful ones never dies but grow stronger. So once they have money or have a chance, they usually stray. See?
It's like a poor man given the chance to snatch a bar of gold, they usually would.
On the contrary, those handsome men usually target women whom they feel for, so if it happens to be an average girl, the feeling is a bond.
But of course, not all handsome men are good lah... It all boils down to how a man sees relationship and how a woman react. Hence the One.
Still a man can have an eternal crush with you, but you may not choose to love him but marry someone else.