What do u think? just a normal thing?

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amihappy

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hey all, just wanna ask for your opinion and what do u think. My bf got 2 hp both having the same wallpaper all along, it's a photo of us together. The main hp is the one I always contact him on and the other one for miscellanous like his colleagues and other ppl. ( i really dun know y he mus have 2 hp). last few days, i saw the wallpaper on his miscellanous hp changed. The photo has been changed to a photo by himself only. This make me think so much....
i asked him and he said 2 hp with same photo a bit funny but why he dun feel funny previously. He said no other photos already. That photo by himself is one that i took for him too.

Now, am I thinking too much. Yes, i'm thinking he is sick of our photo already or he is hiding something like there is another gal and he wan to hide the photo.
 


you are thinking too much ..

at least you know that he has two hps .. some people have more than 1 handphone because they prefer to have separate lines for personal and work use. my husband used to carry a 2nd hp for his work before he told them to just reimburse him for work calls ..

it seems to me that you're equating a picture of a wallpaper to your entire relationship - oh, have a photo of us means our relationship is strong, if no photo means he's hiding something from me ..

please grow up, little girl .. life does not work like that.
 
There is alot to self reflect upon.

If one continues to be so untrusting simply over one photo, then the relationship will never work. If you continue behaving like this, he will not be sick of the photo but of your negativity and insecure behavior.

Many people do have 2 mobiles for various reasons. Do you really don't understand or don't want to believe? Significant difference there actually.

I have one, but will need to print the monthly bill and highlighting individual calls for claims. Not very convenient thing to do!

It is totally impractical to read into every single thing with your relationship and trying to draw conclusions for each of them. Keep your eyes open but stop your mind from wondering. One should not be blindly in love nor do one keep a relationship by breathing down the neck of their partners.

Grow up and learn to manage your relationship as a walk and journey. No one knows the outcome. We only plan and align goals, reflect and discover things on the way. If it fails, its fine. Its the experience, memories and the walk itself that matters.
 
wah lau eh.. wallpaper on the phone also want to question.

Not as if it is the photo of another girl.

By the way, I have three mobile phone..
 
do include the wallpapers on his personal laptop and his office's desktop...
and also, the picture in his wallet.

maybe he is five-timing you...
 
kristy,
ok lah, i think you're normal to think this way but it's just a small matter what..instead of thinking and worrying, just take a few more pictures together and ask him to change lor..see if he wants to do that or he find excuses not to put up with the pictues.. so simple..no need stress over this lah and ask for opinion in public forum
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lol vios..

kristy, other then hp wallpaper, there are still profile pictures on facebook, friendster and etc. my bf and i used to put pictures of us, after a few weeks i seriously am sick of looking at the same photo. I then changed the picture to a solo one and so do he. This action doesnt mean we love each other any lesser loh.

unless he change the picture to an intimate pic with him and another girl.. den i think i will strangle him.. 0_o
 
whahaha.. SM.. u got 3 ah.. hao lian liao lor hor? lol.. so u got 3 gfs??????

actually like what Milo said.. its only a wallpaper on the hp, no big deal really, not say he put another gal photo or what...

dun look too much into things..

Si Vios!!
pple worry tart enuf.. u still come give more links to look out for?!?! whahahahah...

this spa advertiser damn KNN leh.. kaoz..
 
wah! u all even bother to click on it ah? i dont even give a damn man....i somehow already guessed tat theres a hidden agenda liao lor....
 
Janie..
coz for sure I will see some tok cock pple here one.. so come in see lor.. whahahah

so now ur in too!
 
skylar, wat i mean is u all bother to click on the ad!!!! arbo how u noe its spa ad? i didnt even bother to click or read wat she typed lor..
 
honestly peeps, i'll be glad if kristy becomes worried after reading my first post...

that would tell her that she has the tendencies to feel insecure and paranoid -
from the changed wallpaper to his in-coming sms to his phone contacts. You know what i mean...

that would prob point to the root source, and not the superficial matter at hand.
 
actualli i dun find it funny if he just changed the wall paper.. coz my bf oso have 2 hps.. n he & me would changed our wallpaper occassionally.. so i dun find it a prob if ur bf dun put e both of u pic in wallpaper
 
my hb got 2 hps..but i lost count how many lines he have..haha..think known number i know 4..dunno which one in use and which is not..haha..
 
btw..i think wallpaper doesnt really matter de..so long as he still love you..is ok de..last time my phone is our pictures..now all change to bb pic lor.i also nvr put our pictures as wallpaper before..
 
tat's why sometimes technology really sucks...

maybe better to have those old phones where u can't have wallpaper.

kristi, u should tackle your insecurity instead of wallpapers... u obviously dun know where to put your priorities.

reminds me of students who guess the exam questions instead of studying the topic. u might score in guessing, but then u never really know...
 
faint leh..you think too much la! it's only a wallpaper!

then if he sms you dear, darling all these while then one day, his sms didn't use these words, would you think that he has another gal?
 
"i think wallpaper doesnt really matter de..so long as he still love you"

Thing is, Kristy equates wallpaper to love. I don't know how she can be convinced otherwise.
 
Doll
i guess is insecurity issue..she seems young..so she kinda relate together?

Kristy..Dun think so much..if he put a wallpaper of him and another girl then is when can start to worry..so relax..
 
Insecurity is seemingly an understatement leh. Paranoia might be a more fitting description?

To Kristy, I must be one with no love? I for one don't like to wear my heart on my sleeve and I don't display personal items openly. No photo in the wallet, mobile phone, computer screen, work desk, car, etc. But it doesn't mean I don't love who I love.

Oh, but I like public display of little acts of passion. More for the fun and thrills haha
 
milo, you angry at 'neyo' .. now he/she create new account liao - under 'natasha tan'. also have another account under the nick 'mikaela24' ..
 
whahaha.. HBH!

does that show u r worst than a dog?
*Scram*

nabz.. tis spa thingy is really way too much leh.. irritant!
 
Yeah lor. Tonight my wife is going to get it from me. Either my photo or the dog. If not she can pack her bag and go. I will still eat the dog.
 
that neyo-natasha-mikaela tries too hard to integrate the dunno-simi-sai-web-link into his comments...

pretty refreshing for me...
 
HBH, i support your intentions.

never can a guy tolerate that his wife's priority is the dog, and somemore, uses it as wallpaper...

hmmm, i too notice that my wife has changed my favourite ringtone to something else....
 
Stressed? Constipated? Breaking up? No worries. Go SPA! The spa will work miracles apart from pressing your tireness away, it will massage your shit out! It will also knead your relationship back just like a dough!

Problems? No worries. Spa will knead it away!
 
Yeah and not to mentioned that my wife hug the dog first instead of me when we return home! That is it liao lor.

little_poppets under this kind of situation I've got taste too. I am thinking either steamboat or grill taste better. A 7KG Shizhu enough for all to eat. Can ta bao somemore.
 
Ai say man....keke....

We hug our dog first when we reached home....haha

Well...if you are asking....weather's very hot these few days leh... so put off your "Flame-grilled Shizhu" or "Steamboat Shizhu" for the time being hor.... you dun wanna get too heaty lah.....
 
HBH, give me the remains - i can use 'em to distract my wife's dog - to prevent their hugs.

btw, kim (60secs) is a guy....
 
yup, i saw that too...

i think Kim's intention is to "tell" us not to go to the link because he suspects that there might be some virus tagged to the website...

just my observations that the two are different persons.
 
photos in my wallet has to go thr lots of torture from the constant squeezed by my ass and the chair. Not an ideal place to put something special for me.

My cards don't last long. Most will crack after sometime in my wallet. So, I never place any photos except some spare passport photo I took at the custom when applying for passport.

Most guys wallets are badly abused u know.

The talk abt wallets reminded me of my dad. He resisted a robber in Jakarta and held on to the blade knife to prevent the robber from robbing his wallet because of the family photo he kept inside. *Sigh*

And this same man is the one my mum cursed for years as the cheater that womanized and walked out of the marriage. Ironic right?
 
Milo, to your dad it was a photo that if lost, would be gone forever. No chance of re-taking family photos since he and your mom were not together anymore. I could understand how he felt.
 
yah, its a family photo in much happier days for us. I do miss my dad too. Seeing photos of my wedding bring fresh pain to my heart. Especially one photo where he was helping my nephew with his shoe lances.

I often wondered what was it like for him moments before his departure. Did he know he is leaving or suffered?
 


I had just observed the first anniversary of my dad's passing. During lunch just now the colleagues and I were talking about driving and I fondly recounted how during those days my dad who used to sit beside me, gave me tips on driving and parking. How we laughed over my parking skills - grazing pillars and knocking over wall-mounted rubbish bin. So missed his presence in my life.....Finally I am happy with myself and my life, but he is no longer here to share and celebrate with me. My mom had reminded me that at least when my dad was going, I was already a happy soul, and that would be the greatest comfort to him. But, I so want him to see me happier like now.....
 
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