Hi Am-Blessed,
The RR theme u saw should hv been my wedding! *LOL*!Frankly i was REALLY worried initially, cos' none of u girls seemed to hv chosen the theme & there seemed to hv been really yucky remarks on the theme. BUT it turned out REALLY well! It was romantic, and not too ostentatious or "chi-na"! So i'll really recommend it. I didn't choose the GOL theme cos' i really didn't like the green table cloth!
Mic - abt drinking...well, wat u can try is to get your photographer to "protect" you & ur hubby. Ours did a GREAT job...so we were pretty sober. we still drank quite a bit cos' we wanted to. but on the whole, the photographer protected us very well!
cheers!
katoom