Take those as reference but don't let it affect you too much. After all marriage is a gamble, so long both of you are sincere about being together, work on it and don't have regrets. You never know what is waiting for you in the future. If it affects you and end up in breaking up a rs, then probably years down the road when you look back, you will asked yourself questions of IF...We continued on what would become of us.. will we be happily married etc..
We only live once, it's never easy to meet someone you like or able to reciprocate the same mutual feelings. Why not just let nature take it's course, don't let other factors affect you too Much. Good luck! =)