linyibei1984
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My father just passed on on 7 March 2025 and funeral just over on the 9 March 2025.
However my signing of marriage certifcate and solemnisation is next Sunday 23 March 2025. (just 14 days after he left me)
I am a Teochew and Buddhist.
Hence would like to know if it is okay that I still proceed with just the signing of Marriage Certificate with the Monk's blessing,
but no guest, no reception , no banquet and nothing at all as my finance has already informed his parents back in his hometown and
solemniser and venue has all been booked and arranged for already.
(I may have violate or go against the Chinese Tradition of married wthin 100 days or 3 years?) (or within 14 days after my father passed on is it too early?)
Am I not showing any respect to my father who has just departed from this world not long ago by signing on the marriage certificate?
Need advice on this.
Thank you
Yibei
However my signing of marriage certifcate and solemnisation is next Sunday 23 March 2025. (just 14 days after he left me)
I am a Teochew and Buddhist.
Hence would like to know if it is okay that I still proceed with just the signing of Marriage Certificate with the Monk's blessing,
but no guest, no reception , no banquet and nothing at all as my finance has already informed his parents back in his hometown and
solemniser and venue has all been booked and arranged for already.
(I may have violate or go against the Chinese Tradition of married wthin 100 days or 3 years?) (or within 14 days after my father passed on is it too early?)
Am I not showing any respect to my father who has just departed from this world not long ago by signing on the marriage certificate?
Need advice on this.
Thank you
Yibei