Well, I have a problem with a girl i am trying to date. She often confuses me with her actions and i hope you guys can help me understand her.
She is a nice girl and because we once worked together, we know each other. Sometimes she would be very friendly to me. Chat with me, stuff like that. other times she would just say hi or even none at all and sit far away from me.
Yesterday, she once again became friendly and sat near me and struck up a conversation abt stuff and she asked whether i would want to work with her on a project. Well, virtually everyone knows that i am not good in that project area so i was surprised she asked. In addition, the project was not a group one. So i agreed and while walking with her, talked more about the project and stuff like that.
On another occasion, i met her again and asked her about the project and she asked whether i want to eat anything so i said okay and went with her to a coffeeshop. Over there she found out she forgot her wallet and suggested that we walked back to get it but i sadi i could lend her money first to avoid the inconvenience. Well, i paid for her stuff and she asked if i was eating anything and that she doesnt mind waiting for me to eat finish. i said no because i do not want to let her see my sweaty face while eating so i just lamely said the food here was not good and that i would eat at home. I was walking in another direction which is not her usual path but she still walked with me anyway. then we talked some more.
On another occasion, we sat together and we were as usual talking and joking and then i went to the coffeeshop to buy something and asked her if she wanted anything and was surprised that she wanted to walk with me to the coffeeshop becasue she said she needed the walk to keep her awake. For most people i know, they would not even want to walk when they are tired or sleepy. Over at the coffeeshop she just waited while i bought something then we walked back. Then when it was time to leave, she just abruptly left by saying a quick bye bye. I thought we could walk again and talk somemore.
regarding the project, i sent her my part for her info and thought i could receive her info as well, well it turned out that she forgot to send hers even though we met many times and she would often say that she would send it by today. Not that i mind, because it is not a big deal about reading info but if she really likes me then wouldnt she always be thinking of me and as such send me her part instead of forgetting about me??That is the conclusion my friends gave me, that i am just a good buddy, a jie mei to her.
This is really bugging me, because she is a really nice girl and i want to see how good my chances are with her. until now, i dun even have her email or hp number because i dun wan to scare her off and lose a fren in the process. can anyone help me on this?
She is a nice girl and because we once worked together, we know each other. Sometimes she would be very friendly to me. Chat with me, stuff like that. other times she would just say hi or even none at all and sit far away from me.
Yesterday, she once again became friendly and sat near me and struck up a conversation abt stuff and she asked whether i would want to work with her on a project. Well, virtually everyone knows that i am not good in that project area so i was surprised she asked. In addition, the project was not a group one. So i agreed and while walking with her, talked more about the project and stuff like that.
On another occasion, i met her again and asked her about the project and she asked whether i want to eat anything so i said okay and went with her to a coffeeshop. Over there she found out she forgot her wallet and suggested that we walked back to get it but i sadi i could lend her money first to avoid the inconvenience. Well, i paid for her stuff and she asked if i was eating anything and that she doesnt mind waiting for me to eat finish. i said no because i do not want to let her see my sweaty face while eating so i just lamely said the food here was not good and that i would eat at home. I was walking in another direction which is not her usual path but she still walked with me anyway. then we talked some more.
On another occasion, we sat together and we were as usual talking and joking and then i went to the coffeeshop to buy something and asked her if she wanted anything and was surprised that she wanted to walk with me to the coffeeshop becasue she said she needed the walk to keep her awake. For most people i know, they would not even want to walk when they are tired or sleepy. Over at the coffeeshop she just waited while i bought something then we walked back. Then when it was time to leave, she just abruptly left by saying a quick bye bye. I thought we could walk again and talk somemore.
regarding the project, i sent her my part for her info and thought i could receive her info as well, well it turned out that she forgot to send hers even though we met many times and she would often say that she would send it by today. Not that i mind, because it is not a big deal about reading info but if she really likes me then wouldnt she always be thinking of me and as such send me her part instead of forgetting about me??That is the conclusion my friends gave me, that i am just a good buddy, a jie mei to her.
This is really bugging me, because she is a really nice girl and i want to see how good my chances are with her. until now, i dun even have her email or hp number because i dun wan to scare her off and lose a fren in the process. can anyone help me on this?
