Preparing for marriage.. but..

[Chemicalbooze]

We are preparing to get married in 5mths.. I love her a lot .. But recently I feel there is a lack of physical intimacy... Stark contrast from beginning of the relationship.. She is very enthu on the impeding marriage... So I guess it's not second thoughts she's having... Is this an issue I should address now? Anyone can advise?

 

[chti87]

observe a while... if not jus bring her to her favourite place n relax ... my hubby also like tt whem we abt to havr our solrmnization... hahha... stressed up.. but now everything is ok

 

[Chemicalbooze]

Thanks for the advice Chti.. I hope for best here..

 

[chti87]

no problem... don think too muvh... woman are simple..if they don love u they eont be bothet abt the wedding preparation.. all the best

 

[miloice]

Is it so difficult to talk what's bothering you? It is not an healthy sign in the communication when couples are tying the knote and getting so sensitive to even discuss on key topics. Sexual incompatibility is one of the key factors arising to divorce.

 

[uglydude]

Dun rush for marriage unless u are very very sure....coz woman charter very much against man in the event u decided to bail out next time...delay the wedding...dun ever married out of obligation or coz want to save face...get married unless u are very sure of it...else one wrong move n u will regret forever...

 

[chti87]

well tt woman... we like partners to guess maybe she too tense with preparation tt y... of course if my husband will to ask me.. i will tell him the reason

 

[GraciousGrace]

ya, bring her to a cosy cafe have a laid back afternoon tea, and just tell her how you are feeling. it works. At least it does work on me. =)