iamtroubled
New Member
hi all,pls give me some advice to my problem...thanks...
i have a gf dat is younger than me by 2yrs.we have been together for almost 7yrs.we were watching michelle chia's wedding when we start to discuss about our own wedding n stuffs.so i start by asking her the wants n dont wants.i ask her to take a few days to think n ask for her mum's opinion.she gave me an ans saying she wan a 5k engagement ring,wedding dinner at a 4star hotel,a set of diamond jewellery n oso honeymoon to either japan or maldives.the problem is,i quit my job in Jan and am looking for a job now.im planning to use my 15k savings for this wedding.but based on her wants i supposed i simply cannot afford it right now.somehow or rather i feel like its a 1 sided affair,wif me trying my best but sometimes the best is just not good enuf...
should i just drop the whole idea?should i try all means to satisfy her?or should i even let tis relationship cool off?
i have a gf dat is younger than me by 2yrs.we have been together for almost 7yrs.we were watching michelle chia's wedding when we start to discuss about our own wedding n stuffs.so i start by asking her the wants n dont wants.i ask her to take a few days to think n ask for her mum's opinion.she gave me an ans saying she wan a 5k engagement ring,wedding dinner at a 4star hotel,a set of diamond jewellery n oso honeymoon to either japan or maldives.the problem is,i quit my job in Jan and am looking for a job now.im planning to use my 15k savings for this wedding.but based on her wants i supposed i simply cannot afford it right now.somehow or rather i feel like its a 1 sided affair,wif me trying my best but sometimes the best is just not good enuf...
should i just drop the whole idea?should i try all means to satisfy her?or should i even let tis relationship cool off?