Please advise

[guest28]

Hi

Last week when I went over to stay overnite at my sister's house ( cos hubby gone for overseas trip), while I was having my shower, I discovered that my sister's hubby peeped at me.

The bathroom door was those kind, can only pulled to open & close, cannot totally locked properly.

There were his wet footprints on the floor outside the bathroom ( most probably he forget to wipe off his footprints). My sister was not at home during that time as she was doing overtime in office.

What shld I do ? Tell my sister abt this? or just simply treat as nothing has happened.

 

[soisuka]

If u tell ur sister...either she doesn't believe u and u jeopardize ur kinship w her or she believes u and it jeopardizes her marriage. If u don't tell her, she might be spending the rest of her life with a pervert.

Is there any possibility that u were mistaken?

 

[guest28]

hi soisuka

There are only two of us at home during that time, so most probably could not be anyone else other than him.

I would be more careful in future......

 

[pink_sapphire]

try not to be alone at home with only him and don't get too close to him. be more careful in future

 

[dracano]

Curious,

It's hard to say if that could just be an impulsive move motivated by lust by your brother-in-law but what's important is that you need to draw a clear line the next time you notice him trying to hint you something or get closer to you than necessary.

If not, he might start to think you could be interested in him too, e.g. purposely showering at his bathroom when no one else was around (well, men can get imaginative at times) and get overboard with his actions.

Do keep us updated, and take care.

 

[dracano]

Anyway how did you discover he peeped at you? You saw it while showering or just based solely on the wet footprints? (why were there footprints anyway? Was the floor outside the bathroom wet?)

 

[guest28]

Hi Dragon

The bathroom floor is usually wet whenever we take shower. It's a big bathroom (in the sense that it is long in shape ). Whoever step inside the bathroom will be wet, surely hv to wipe dry their legs.

 

[soisuka]

So ru saying he peeped INSIDE the bathroom?

 

[watching]

YoO-HoO.....MiLo,

Do yOu kNoW hOw To DeTecT eNtRaPmEnT ?

 

[nikeplus]

Give your sis's husband the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he thought ur sis is the one in the shower.

 

[dracano]

curious,
Thanks for the reply. I have the same question as Soisuka, though I'm not sure if this will be relevant to your concerns. I'm just trying to see if this could all just be a misunderstanding.

 

[watching]

JoDleR-I-Oo.....MiLo,

1. Do yOu kNoW hOw To DeTecT eNtRaPmEnT ?
2. ARre yOu JuSt BiaSeD aGaiNst mE ?
3. Or aRe yoU wAitIng fOr sOMeoNe eLsE tO tAkE tHe PLUnGe fIrSt ?

 

[watching]

Which of the above question applies ah ?

 

[watching]

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