lilmspep, I think if confirmed more tables, should be easier to talk. But confirmed only when you are very sure.
Sorry to say this, but I think his dad is rather inconsiderate cos I never wanted a big wedding. My ideal is a small garden setting, v english style type. Now, to go with his dad wishes, it became so huge and nightmarish. I bitterly joke, its his dad event, I just make guest appearance.
Regards $$, we didnt discuss that too. Also do not know how it will turn out. Hopefully his dad will be more 'automatic' in this issue. Cos it's his guests.
Thomas: 50 not enough cos I think my BF is a very filal son, will let his dad have 30 tables bah. So its 20 tables to be shared by my family, my frens and his friends. I think just have to really trim the guests list.
ixoral: phoenix can hold 50 tables. But its gg to be v tight. HL said about 45 tables is just nice.