Dearest readers,
I am in a loss as of what am i suppose to do. Me and my thai wife tied the knot on Feb 2015.
She ran away from home(my parent's) for more than 6 times this year. And everything i manage to go thailand and "sayang" her to come back.
Earlier June 2016 while nobody is home, she packed her luggage and ran off. While i am at work, i contacted her, and she did not answer. Due to past experience, i sensed something is wrong and i went back home from work. My office is very near home. She wrote a letter saying she cant stay anymore and asking me not to find her. "Fortunately", she forgotten to take her passport with her. So i waited for her at home.
As expected she returned only to be so shocked to see me.
She immediately try to run away and i kept trying to calm her down and asking her to talk things out nicely.
She refused and i do not intend to let her go, because if i do, i wont be able to find her anymore.
After hours of talking, she agree to come home to talk. And when i probed where are your stuffs, she said at friend's house and she want me to let her go take herself. But i refused. I offered to send her over to take. After much questioning, she confessed to me her items are at her ex-bf house. my heart was shattered. However i forgive her and we go over to take her luggage back the following day.
This time round she ran away again on the 14 June 2016. When my mum is at home and i am at work. She did not bring her luggage with her, just a backpack and her makeups and some clothes. Again i called her, she did not answer. Because she never failed to pick up my call. I immediately sensed something is wrong again.
I asked my mum to check the room, and she was not there. And her passport is gone as well.
I managed to get in touch with her, i asked her where is she, she told me she is home. I told her mum said u not home. Then she replied she go downstairs. I am so stressed up typing all this painful memories.
After i told her i know her passport is gone, she got angry and told me to let her go. I tell her nicely to calm down and to go back thailand to relax and to take it as a holiday.
We still message and call each other but it was all cold replies from her.
I flew over to bkk on 26 June to surprise her, only to get myself surprised instead. She was scolding me infront of her mum and kept saying she do not want me anymore and she want back her life.
I keep trying to calm her down. After much struggle, she walked out of her house, i followed her to her car and we talked inside.
She booked a room for me to stay over at her condo for a night, we talked for an hour. And she promised me that she will be back but have to give time to her first. For the very first time she did not stay with me. She leave me all alone.
The next morning, she also went out with her mum without me. When she come back, she bring me to eat and indirectly forced me to check out and go stay in a hotel. When we are together, she did not bring her phone with her. I dont know why she must do like this. She doesnt want to answer me.
After lunch, we went back her place to collect my luggage. And she hailed a taxi for me to go to the hotel. She do not want to go with me. After boarding the taxi, i think there is no point for me to stay anymore as i hate to be all alone. So i head to the airport and buy a ticket to come back to Singapore.
After knowing i am going back to singapore, she told me she is really sorry and she felt guilty for doing this to me. I told her nvm, as long as she kept her promise i am ok. But she simply ignore me.
The following day the same old cold treatment from her is back again. She ignored me, and told me her heart no more love. And she deleted me from Facebook and block me in Line app.
I am still messaging her daily, and she will randomly unblock me and read my messages. She did randomly asked whether i have cancelled her Long Term Visit Pass, and i replied her dont be silly, i wont do that. Because i still want her to come back to me. She just replied, she dont care. Want to cancel just cancel.
Sorry for being so long winded, here is the main dish now...
She secretly came back to SG on the 13 July without letting me know. A friend told me. And i suspect she is staying with another guy or working illegally in some disco.
I tried everything to salvage this marriage, she do not want to see me, she do not want this marriage and she is totally uncontactable now.
She do not want to meet up or end this marriage nicely. She just ask me to stop disturbing her, and she will wait for 2 years for divorce.
Last night she lied to me that she is going back to BKK. When she is still in Singapore. I guess, she know i am not able to cancel her LTVP and that is why she is so "Ya Ya". Keep asking me to go cancel her pass, she dont need it. Only until earlier this morning i called up ICA with regards to this, they say that i cant Cancel without her surrendering the pass. I am totally stuck now.
I am really at a lost what can i do anymore. I tried my very best to save our marriage but she just simply do not want to come back and she just want her way. She do not want to go see lawyer for seperation, all these shows she wanted to use the LTVP to be with the guy or work.
Please help me. =(
I am in a loss as of what am i suppose to do. Me and my thai wife tied the knot on Feb 2015.
She ran away from home(my parent's) for more than 6 times this year. And everything i manage to go thailand and "sayang" her to come back.
Earlier June 2016 while nobody is home, she packed her luggage and ran off. While i am at work, i contacted her, and she did not answer. Due to past experience, i sensed something is wrong and i went back home from work. My office is very near home. She wrote a letter saying she cant stay anymore and asking me not to find her. "Fortunately", she forgotten to take her passport with her. So i waited for her at home.
As expected she returned only to be so shocked to see me.
She immediately try to run away and i kept trying to calm her down and asking her to talk things out nicely.
She refused and i do not intend to let her go, because if i do, i wont be able to find her anymore.
After hours of talking, she agree to come home to talk. And when i probed where are your stuffs, she said at friend's house and she want me to let her go take herself. But i refused. I offered to send her over to take. After much questioning, she confessed to me her items are at her ex-bf house. my heart was shattered. However i forgive her and we go over to take her luggage back the following day.
This time round she ran away again on the 14 June 2016. When my mum is at home and i am at work. She did not bring her luggage with her, just a backpack and her makeups and some clothes. Again i called her, she did not answer. Because she never failed to pick up my call. I immediately sensed something is wrong again.
I asked my mum to check the room, and she was not there. And her passport is gone as well.
I managed to get in touch with her, i asked her where is she, she told me she is home. I told her mum said u not home. Then she replied she go downstairs. I am so stressed up typing all this painful memories.
After i told her i know her passport is gone, she got angry and told me to let her go. I tell her nicely to calm down and to go back thailand to relax and to take it as a holiday.
We still message and call each other but it was all cold replies from her.
I flew over to bkk on 26 June to surprise her, only to get myself surprised instead. She was scolding me infront of her mum and kept saying she do not want me anymore and she want back her life.
I keep trying to calm her down. After much struggle, she walked out of her house, i followed her to her car and we talked inside.
She booked a room for me to stay over at her condo for a night, we talked for an hour. And she promised me that she will be back but have to give time to her first. For the very first time she did not stay with me. She leave me all alone.
The next morning, she also went out with her mum without me. When she come back, she bring me to eat and indirectly forced me to check out and go stay in a hotel. When we are together, she did not bring her phone with her. I dont know why she must do like this. She doesnt want to answer me.
After lunch, we went back her place to collect my luggage. And she hailed a taxi for me to go to the hotel. She do not want to go with me. After boarding the taxi, i think there is no point for me to stay anymore as i hate to be all alone. So i head to the airport and buy a ticket to come back to Singapore.
After knowing i am going back to singapore, she told me she is really sorry and she felt guilty for doing this to me. I told her nvm, as long as she kept her promise i am ok. But she simply ignore me.
The following day the same old cold treatment from her is back again. She ignored me, and told me her heart no more love. And she deleted me from Facebook and block me in Line app.
I am still messaging her daily, and she will randomly unblock me and read my messages. She did randomly asked whether i have cancelled her Long Term Visit Pass, and i replied her dont be silly, i wont do that. Because i still want her to come back to me. She just replied, she dont care. Want to cancel just cancel.
Sorry for being so long winded, here is the main dish now...
She secretly came back to SG on the 13 July without letting me know. A friend told me. And i suspect she is staying with another guy or working illegally in some disco.
I tried everything to salvage this marriage, she do not want to see me, she do not want this marriage and she is totally uncontactable now.
She do not want to meet up or end this marriage nicely. She just ask me to stop disturbing her, and she will wait for 2 years for divorce.
Last night she lied to me that she is going back to BKK. When she is still in Singapore. I guess, she know i am not able to cancel her LTVP and that is why she is so "Ya Ya". Keep asking me to go cancel her pass, she dont need it. Only until earlier this morning i called up ICA with regards to this, they say that i cant Cancel without her surrendering the pass. I am totally stuck now.
I am really at a lost what can i do anymore. I tried my very best to save our marriage but she just simply do not want to come back and she just want her way. She do not want to go see lawyer for seperation, all these shows she wanted to use the LTVP to be with the guy or work.
Please help me. =(
